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If this doesn't impact you why not just ignore it instead of writing multi-page screeds about how it doesn't affect you?
It affects me because I feel I need to keep up to date with which instances defederate with each other in order to follow communities. It feels like defederation is a cudgel that is thrown around a lot, and a lot of innocent people get hit in the crossfire.
However, you are correct. A lot of my posts on Lemmy have, to be honest, been my attempts to fix something which can't be fixed. It's super not a healthy thing to be doing, honestly. I really should take a break from Lemmy, it's done nothing but cause me stress and tire me.
Edit: Bit of context for those late, my original comment was just a ramble about how I'm fed up of drama, etc. Nothing really that groundbreaking, tbh.
Sounds like the right call. I've stopped taking social media seriously and I'm doing great at the expense of being a bit more lonely on the interwebs