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I've definitely turned into the paranoid nutcase within my friend group in recent years, I hate that everything is "smart" nowadays requiring an app/internet connection & account, just to do basic things that didn't require any of that before.

What's some things currently making you ramble like an old man?

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[–] HunkyBrewster@lemm.ee 131 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Noise pollution and how comfortable people feel contributing to it. I’m mostly talking about people playing videos and listening to music in public (bars, restaurants, etc), but also the new “stereos” on motorcycles that are essentially just PA systems. Sometimes it feels like nowhere’s quiet anymore.

[–] starman2112@sh.itjust.works 42 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Tangentially related, light pollution. Not just the damn city preventing me from seeing Nishimura, but also inside your own home. How many electronics do you have that put out constant light? I should not be able to cast a shadow on my wall while my TV is off.

Does anyone know where I can get a large, dim, red alarm clock? It always seems like I have to choose one of those, two if I'm lucky.

[–] Frogmanfromlake@hexbear.net 31 points 1 year ago

It seems like people are scared of silence after being raised on constant stimulation. They go everywhere with airpods and then blast the music when those aren't enough. Even nature trails aren't enough anymore because there's always some asshole blasting their music.

[–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Some people get downright feral when their noise machines are even brought up. It's competitive aggression against other competitive aggressors and it's supposed to go without criticism, or else. frothingfash

[–] HunkyBrewster@lemm.ee 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

This is precisely why I don’t say anything when it happens. It doesn’t seem to bother others — for some odd reason — and I don’t want to get my ass beat if they end up being unreasonable.

[–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 7 points 1 year ago

That's also why I just have to put up with the floorboards shaking at 3 in the morning because a very divorced grillman needs to tell the neighborhood about his divorce while doing figure eights in the nearby parking lot.

[–] cubedsteaks@lemmy.today 6 points 1 year ago

also the new “stereos” on motorcycles that are essentially just PA systems

God I was walking to the store on Saturday and some douche was driving around blasting one of the SHITTIEST red hot chili pepper songs ever and he fucking circled the block a couple times so me and everyone walking down the sidewalks had to endure this fucking god awful song at full fucking volume.

Fucking inconsiderate as hell.

[–] mustardman@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] 7bicycles@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago

yeah the whole dang teenagers and their bluetooth boxes always struck me as odd. I mean not that it's not dick behaviour but considering we allow sports cars to annoy everyone in like a 1 mile radius when the owner decides to compensate for whatever it feels odd that there's this focus on people listening to music

[–] Grebgreb@hexbear.net 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] mustardman@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago
[–] Cardinalis@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago

On a related note, speakerphone calls in public spaces.

You are not the main character.