rubythulhu

joined 1 year ago
[–] rubythulhu@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 7 months ago

it’s not tearing people down, it’s usually someone unintentionally doing something hurtful when they mean to try to help someone.

read the first section of this, it explains the issue (the egg prime directive) well: https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en/am-i-trans

[–] rubythulhu@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 7 months ago

Eggs and hatched eggs post memes about being an egg or questioning their own gender. Other people seeing the memes may or may not relate.

The issue is in telling someone they are trans. Read this if you’re really interested, the first section is about the egg prime directive and explains this concept and why it’s important really well: https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en/am-i-trans

[–] rubythulhu@lemmy.blahaj.zone 28 points 7 months ago (6 children)

An egg is a term in the LGBTQ community for someone who is exploring their gender or is in denial of it. When an egg cracks/hatches, a trans person has accepted who they really are. Calling someone an egg is telling them they’re trans, and is not something anyone should dictate about someone else.

[–] rubythulhu@lemmy.blahaj.zone 38 points 7 months ago

It’s not a slur, the point is that you don’t get to dictate someone else’s personal journey. Instead we tell our stories, and if that helps someone relate, it’s because our story resonates with their story.

[–] rubythulhu@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

I wonder how much of this is the fault of food delivery apps. I've heard multiple people who run a small restaurant or food cart complaining that those apps as part of their terms/contract wouldn't let you price up your menu items in-app to cover the % cut they take. during pandemic when app orders become the majority of your business, it makes sense to price up the items to include uber's cut across the board and just incorporate it into your cost model.

[–] rubythulhu@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 7 months ago

oh hell, normally i do this in every rpg to see if it has an effect, never did it for this game and now i have to

[–] rubythulhu@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 7 months ago (2 children)

this is only true if you don’t indent properly

 
[–] rubythulhu@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

would have preferred “we’re not people” on this one

[–] rubythulhu@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 7 months ago

after paying them, they will no longer work at this post office or be involved at all or get any of the profit, and instead you will do all of those things (presumably as a team with your husband, according to the ad).

it’s like buying a fast food franchise.

[–] rubythulhu@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 7 months ago (4 children)

i’ve had the testflight build since early on, but haven’t paid much attention to this app because i can’t get the post-list ui to look the way i prefer in other apps. 😅

my community doesn’t need much moderation either, which means if i don’t check the website often enough i’ll completely miss a few reports because there haven’t been any in a month and my instance admin has to be annoyed by them.

[–] rubythulhu@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 7 months ago (6 children)

oh i didn’t think to look in the communities list, sorry. my mod queue is empty currently, how does the app show you there’s an unhandled report? I’d kind of expect them to show up in inbox tab, but it seems i have to go through the posts tab -> community list -> mod zone dance to get to them? is there a notification count on the posts tab too for reports to hint to me that there’s something there?

Also it might be nice to mention mod tools in the app description because most lemmy apps are still lacking them.

[–] rubythulhu@lemmy.blahaj.zone -2 points 7 months ago (9 children)

“full-featured” -> no mod tools

tired of this dance with lemmy apps

 
 

The first pre-alpha for this really fun upcoming RTS ends today, but second wave of pre-alpha starts on january 5th, during which time the community will be allowed to stream the game.

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!bi_irl@lemmy.blahaj.zone

All who are attracted to more than one gender are welcome, as are their allies.

 

!are_the_straights_ok@lemmy.blahaj.zone

This was one of my favorite subreddits, and I want to see it survive on lemmy.

Community for posting & making fun of memes/boomer-comics made by cishet people about how it's awful to be in relationship, or have children, or whatever else, also putting inappropriate clothing on children.

Post your "lol ball & chain" "my home boss" "haha i murdered my partner lol because im so frustrated over dishes lmao" memes here, as well as your garden-variety "toddler wearing a 'mothers, hide your daughters' onesie" or "" cishet behavior.

 
 
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