Does anyone know of an Android app for Lemmy that will work on Android 7.0. Currently it looks like Jerboa requires Android 8.0 so I can't install it on one of my primary devices.
Please save the lectures about upgrading.... There are important reasons why this device is still on 7.0.
It's certainly a difficult topic for sure. You're absolutely right about amputation but in those cases you make absolutely sure that the infection is indeed a problem.
To me it's also telling that any time and instance on both Lemmy and Mastodon ask their users this question it's invaded by people from other instances that become the strongest vocal opposition. It really makes me feel like there's a very loud minority that is more intent on making others see their way than they are the actual will of the people. That's not to say they don't have valid points but they make it really hard to judge the actual pulse.
Reality is that I'd probably not leave lemm.ee if you defederate immediately because of the UI differences that you mentioned but when it comes to Mastodon I think it's a bigger deal. You've so far shown that you're acting as a great admin so I have trust that you'll make the right call - whatever that is.