Mighty

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[–] Mighty@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

alright. not a lot of interaction here. so I'll keep posting about this hell-about

[–] Mighty@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

This business with the invisible roads is also quite messy. but maybe works? i dunno... cars don't really spawn

[–] Mighty@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago

yeah. that's a google maps shot.... here's what i'm cooking up right now. surface networks and invisible roads

 

okay. here's a few things that trip me up: basically every exit lol, but specifically north-east. this corner is super weird. the road north (1 way) is not really connected to the roundabout, there is like a seperate road/lane that runs "past" the roundabout from east to west. but the roundabout has an exit to that road. and that road splits up into a lane onto the roundabout and one that runs past it.

i'm also not 100% on what to do about the slip lanes that still kinda brush the roundabout. i'm trying with curbless roads, but they're super finnicky

here's one more image with the streetview lanes

https://imgur.com/a/DYMuMMC

[–] Mighty@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Thank you. Those are some actionable tips for me.

This really stuck in my head today and I'm still processing your message. Thank you so much for taking the time to write it, it means a lot.

[–] Mighty@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

Hey that means a lot. Oceans and landmasses are in the way, but I appreciate you.

[–] Mighty@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

So the number. Out of 50, 30 are just my colleagues. I didn't all invite them individually, a few I did, but mostly I gave a group invite. It's quite usual for the colleagues to hang out together, go to stuff together. So that leaves 20 people I invited by hand.

[–] Mighty@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Thanks. Those are good points. I'm 40. I've been to therapy. And it's not like I can just go, there's no spots, no therapists, no waiting lists. I have a social therapist who's okay, I guess. I'm on bupropion, but after about 2,5-3 years, I finally want to get off it. I hate being on antidepressants so long, I've had bad experiences with taking them too long.

The hard thing about learning these mental patterns and tools as a person with ADD seems to me, like I have to learn them again and again and again...

I've been diagnosed about 2-3 years ago only...

I'm glad it worked out for you so far. Good luck out there

[–] Mighty@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Thanks for the insights. I don't think I can say I had fun or similar, when I didn't. I had anxiety the whole night and felt incredibly awkward and ashamed.

[–] Mighty@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Yeah thanks for the advice and the wishes. I think you're exactly right about how those conversations could turn out. So I guess something uncommitting like you suggested is a good start ...

I like the idea with the smaller dinners. Sadly, people don't come around my place. It's a bit out of the way. And I thought the "bigger" plans are exactly good for the kind of conversations where you aren't too close with the people and you can get closer with them. In a café/restaurant/bar/living room setting, you have to do small talk...

[–] Mighty@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Thank you. That means a lot and I hope your situation improves, too.

I wrote it in another comment: I can see how it's partly not about me. Everyone had a specific and relatable and legit reason not to come. Just in the collection it also is indicative of my standing. So apparently I don't have 50 friends, I don't appeal to people in general and I don't pull people who have ever the slightest reason not to go.

[–] Mighty@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Thanks. That's a real answer to my question. I'm just so tired of trying....

I think they don't know how important it was for me. And I don't think that I can tell them.

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Hey there. I am incredibly sad, downright depressed and mentally exhausted.

I wanted to celebrate my birthday yesterday for the first time (maybe ever?) with lots of nice people. I invited about 30-50 people. Some, I invited personally, some just casually through groups. Lots of those people I thought of as somehow close and friendly.

I exhausted myself in the effort of preparing the party, I rented a room, I prepared photos, activities, food, music, and just put a lot of mental energy into the planning. I have been planning it for about 2 months, invited those who were most important to me back then even.

5 people showed up.

I am devastated. I was always so anxious about my birthday and never celebrated it. I think I removed myself from groups a lot in my life. And only the last two years, I've started to understand my diagnosis and how to communicate with people. This throws all my anxiety and pain back into my body and brain.

I don't know how to deal with it. Especially I don't know how to interact with the people that were important to me and who didn't show (or those who didn't even cancel). My past behaviour was burning down all the bridges. I don't think I should do that. But I also don't know how to pretend like it doesn't hurt....

Any advice about rejection anxiety and ... well, real rejection?

Thank you.

 

So, i am getting back into a cities project after being out of the game for a while. I'm using https://terraining.ateliernonta.com/ to generate heightmap and overlay image. it also exports OSM data (I also tried to do it manually with the same result)

now what happens is this. i think this has always happened. it seems like the "scale" is off. the roads are "correct" but slightly shifted in all directions. they're not all just slightly north like the picture. at one point it exactly overlaps and the rest is too far south. like the scale is wrong. like it's too small or something. but the OSM scale is 1. did i do something wrong?

(i looked through the github but couldn't find anything. also no similar things on the workshop comments right away)

 

I don't really know where to start. It's not hurting me, but I'm confused. I don't recall doing anything different o not sure where to start looking for issues.

It boots up, shows me my drives and says "settings were reset to default values" If I go into bios, nothing looks off to me. Windows doesn't show an issue.

I'm running Win10. I can give you all the info you want. Just need a hint as to where to start looking. Thanks

picture of the boot screen

 

Hi y'all, i used to be so prolific at the whole pc building thing. but now i'm out of the game with age and not buying stuff in a while. so here's my question:

my PC is fine and i upgraded parts of it during the years. but it may be time for a new motherboard, since mine only supports 32gb of RAM which isnt enough anymore.

what do I need to do to replace my motherboard? I guess, i'd have to re-install everything, right? Isn't windows and all the software kinda bound to my motherboard?

since i'm fine with my 2060Super, i guess getting a new PC is not worth it, my case and hard drives are fine. i will need new RAM and SSDs. So what should I look for in a motherboard?

thanks for reading this ramble

 

I designed this myself with the help of my tattoo artist

 

And the FBI was assigned to follow the film team on reports of a "vaguely middle-eastern man with a bear in an ice-crem truck", which has to be the funniest report xD

 
 
 

Here's the pic he's taking.

And yes, it's a stock photo of a guy taking a stock photo of the stock market. Meta

 
 
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