yay?
Mighty
This business with the invisible roads is also quite messy. but maybe works? i dunno... cars don't really spawn
yeah. that's a google maps shot.... here's what i'm cooking up right now. surface networks and invisible roads
Thank you. Those are some actionable tips for me.
This really stuck in my head today and I'm still processing your message. Thank you so much for taking the time to write it, it means a lot.
Hey that means a lot. Oceans and landmasses are in the way, but I appreciate you.
So the number. Out of 50, 30 are just my colleagues. I didn't all invite them individually, a few I did, but mostly I gave a group invite. It's quite usual for the colleagues to hang out together, go to stuff together. So that leaves 20 people I invited by hand.
Thanks. Those are good points. I'm 40. I've been to therapy. And it's not like I can just go, there's no spots, no therapists, no waiting lists. I have a social therapist who's okay, I guess. I'm on bupropion, but after about 2,5-3 years, I finally want to get off it. I hate being on antidepressants so long, I've had bad experiences with taking them too long.
The hard thing about learning these mental patterns and tools as a person with ADD seems to me, like I have to learn them again and again and again...
I've been diagnosed about 2-3 years ago only...
I'm glad it worked out for you so far. Good luck out there
Thanks for the insights. I don't think I can say I had fun or similar, when I didn't. I had anxiety the whole night and felt incredibly awkward and ashamed.
Yeah thanks for the advice and the wishes. I think you're exactly right about how those conversations could turn out. So I guess something uncommitting like you suggested is a good start ...
I like the idea with the smaller dinners. Sadly, people don't come around my place. It's a bit out of the way. And I thought the "bigger" plans are exactly good for the kind of conversations where you aren't too close with the people and you can get closer with them. In a café/restaurant/bar/living room setting, you have to do small talk...
Thank you. That means a lot and I hope your situation improves, too.
I wrote it in another comment: I can see how it's partly not about me. Everyone had a specific and relatable and legit reason not to come. Just in the collection it also is indicative of my standing. So apparently I don't have 50 friends, I don't appeal to people in general and I don't pull people who have ever the slightest reason not to go.
Thanks. That's a real answer to my question. I'm just so tired of trying....
I think they don't know how important it was for me. And I don't think that I can tell them.
alright. not a lot of interaction here. so I'll keep posting about this hell-about