Blazingtransfem98

It is bullshit and it will hurt Lemmy and the fediverse greatly in the long term since they've effectively crippled the onboarding process and turned their instance into a club.

The proponents of application registration are elitists who believe that the Fediverse should be run like the most toxic and exclusive club ever known to man, like, the kind you see in movies with bouncers who will assault you for walking past the place, not even trying to get inside.

They try and argue about network health, and continue to bring up the boogeyman of spam, but the reality is that they are elitist and want a specific user group on the Fediverse while keeping everyone else out, and they want everyone else to do it too. The fact of the matter is that what they are doing and encouraging is more harmful to this place than anything else, because without normies, this place is a ghost town.

Oh and spam can be dealt with without kicking out normies, I've outlined that systems which automatically ban spammers and purge their spam would work mostly the same as they do on the big tech platforms that almost without exception have open registrations. So stop using the spam boogeyman, it's an invented problem to justify your elitism and we see right through it.

Open sign ups are actually a bad thing for the overall health of the network. Yes it also keeps out the lowest common denominator normies but those aren’t exactly the ones who contribute to the network as a whole anyway

This is an elitist mentality that harms the health of the network on its own by limiting the amount of people who interact on the platform and post. I've said it before and I'll say it again, turning the Fediverse into a club is a horrible way to create a platform where people interact with each other like a social media, because the nature of clubs is that they are small and exclusive.

This isn’t capitalism, there isn’t a need for growth for growth’s sake.

Please don't mischaracterize the demand for having people interacting on the platform and with as something capitalist, or big tech only for making money, it's disingenuous because people want to have their posts seen by other people, why else would they even post them publicly? Having more people makes a platform more lively, and having more people voting makes content shift and flow.

Let's face it, small exclusive clubs are one of the biggest reasons Fediverse hasn't taken off. And it makes sense since if you don't let normies in and treat it like a club the place will be dead as fuck and have very few people interacting. Only reason its active now is because many instances used to be open and gained userbases.

There does need to be a more simplified way to onboard users but not at the cost of the health of the network.

No, we don't need something new and convoluted, that'll just push out the normies who want to be here or make them not want to. We need to take the page out of big tech's book, let people and spammers signup freely, and ban the spammers automatically. No one wants to do this, they want to invent new solutions that are unfriendly, or just kick out normies and then complain that this place is sooooo dead. Stick to what works, it wouldn't have been done that way on the OG centralized social media if it didn't work.

Also don't conflate assholes/trolls with spammers, that's disingenuous as fuck both because you are over-inflating the spam problem to make your elitist solution seem more appealing and also because the solution does not work for both types of people. You're not going to stop all or even most assholes or trolls by asking them questions, they can lie dumbass have you forgotten that or do you think Instance admins are divine beings who can't be lied to, if Reddit admins aren't Lemmy admins sure as fuck aren't. Some of the biggest assholes I've met on Lemmy are on instances with applications, it DOES NOT WORK AGAINST THEM.

Good point, On Mastodon there are a handful more options but it's generally not much better over there. Point is the Fediverse is suffering from becoming a collection of exclusive clubs rather than a social media platform.

The top 3 servers on Lemmy are private clubs as of now, they may not have been before but they certainly are now. There are barely any for normies to join. I only found discuss.online because I was lucky enough to, and lets face it this is the only real option because the other one has a swear in the name and most people won't want to join an immature server like that.

You can't just pick a server, your options are severely limited, if discuss.online goes away or converts to a club too, there won't be any options. You can't "just pick a sever" that only works if you have choices. This is the last one, after that no more choices.

Yeah it's actually a much bigger problem here than it is on Mastodon. Probably will end up slowing adoption of Lemmy in the future. Especially considering Lemmy is one of those platforms that really needs normie content and normie interaction to keep going, something it's really struggling at currently.

Beehaw sucks, they embraced the exclusive club mentality harder than anyone else.

Deemed by who? People who don't want to adopt new things? It's not too hard they just don't want to do it and will make any excuse not to.

Talk shit about normies all you want but they're most of the people who repost memes and give communities life, you can't cut them out and expect to have a thriving community. These practices of elitism and exclusion are the reason why Mastodon and the fediverse as a whole are stagnating.

How many more of your comments are AI generated?

You don’t have to do that when you sign up for mstdn.social, and it’s also not a requirement for mastodon.social And there are more instances where you don’t have to apply like that.

Yes, and we need much more like that if we want this platform to be sucessful as a whole. Normies want to join social medias, not clubs.

But when it’s asked that you apply to the server, it’s usually to ease the load of moderation, to see if you would fit the vibe of that instance. And/or to protect the more vulnerable people on that particular instance.

We all know or should know that running a platform like a club where people need to apply and have their worth manually determined is a toxic and unwelcoming environment that does not promote any kind of growth, and the fact that it is common and encouraged is not helpful to the fediverse long term. It just pushes normies away. Because a social media doesn't ask people to apply, a club does. Most people don't want to join small exclusive clubs.

That doesn't make me feel any better about it, a dildo is a toy, it's not something that should be attached to your body, especially in the spot my vagina would be. It feels very wrong.