A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.
Here are some examples to inspire your own showerthoughts:
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If you're trying to justify your drinking to me after I said "Oh, I don't drink" I'm really gonna think you're an alcoholic because I said nothing to warrant you needing to justify yourself. I just don't like drinking myself.
Almost every single time I have made a comment about how I do not like alcohol, I get a few replies from people trying to justify their consumption to me, as if I said I hate people who drink.
I guess I'm lucky. Since I retired from drinking no one has pushed back when I've declined to partake.
I think in some areas, the culture is starting to shift around that a bit. I remember the 2000-2010s era having a lot of shows that were more on-the-nose about the topic and then seeing more people talking about how to properly interact with recovering alcoholics on social media in the years following.
Purely anecdotal, of course. I just get the vibe that some areas where drinking used to be very expected, have learned to treat it as a choice
Also don't drink, can confirm.
This is always weird when the doctor asks. Both my wife and I are not adverse to drinking and do but like it took us several years to use up a bottle of cognac she had picked up because she wanted to do up eggnog all special one year. So the answer is always. Yes but very very very rarely.
I drink because I like to support local business. It just happens that the local business I want to support are breweries.
Not all heroes wear capes. Thank you for your service!
You betcha and I have a few great ones nearby. Cheers! 🍻
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I'm fine with my 12-pack a day of Keystones.
Sometimes the point of alcohol is just to get a little bit drunk.
Similarly, asking anyone to defend their position on why sobriety is superior will eventually have them sound like they are insecure and judgemental.
I can't think of a scenario where you ask someone to defend why they don't drink but they are the one that is insecure and judgemental. There's plenty of situations where people drink when they shouldn't (eg driving) but it's not quite so common to be in a situation where you must drink but don't.
Maybe I'm just terminally online, but I've seen lots of people boast that they've "never gotten intoxicated" and view this as some sort of moral boon. It just reads as fear to me. Not that I'd force them to get high, but don't knock it if ya haven't tried it.
Alcohol is a great solvent and widely used in flavor extracts such as orange and almond concentrating and preserving the essence of flavors.
It's use can add natural flavors to a great variety of recipes.
OP just go cucked
sure as long as your accurate. There were things suggesting one or two servings per day was actually healthy but if your using it to justify more then it immediately falls apart. Also you can justify the pleasurable effects but if it ever interferes with anything at all then that is out the window.
You need different friends.
Nah I'm alcoholic, why defend it beer makes me happy
I enjoy drinking
Why would somebody need to defend it lol
If you don't like it don't do it, if you like it do it.
Try it with opiates lol.
This sounds like it starts from the assumption that it can only be consumed for the effect, not the taste.
I drink once, maybe twice every year, and never more than 2-3 drinks. And I specifically either sip a finger of Jägermeister, a White Russian, or expensive gin tonics (Scapegrace is brilliantly rich and nuanced, for instance), because I enjoy the taste.
What I do not enjoy is getting drunk. Not only because the following two days are worse than death, but especially because I don't like how my body slips out of my control and how it encourages my mind to drift toward the dark place.
Yeah, like you could totally defend going for a wine tasting a few times a year without sounding like an alcoholic. The amount matters.
I think alcohol like music can not be separated from its effect upon the mind. I think those effects are entirely the point we take it, I think if it was just taste you would not drink your White Russian. I think when you drink it it is because you want to visit or at least be reminded of your dark place. Like all drugs it is vital not to ignore the positive effects they can have while also being very aware of the long term negative consequences. As to answering the original question I think if you drink less than the average it is permissible to give as your reasons that you sometimes like the way it makes you feel. You drink in the same way you put on music, not because of the sound or the taste but because it takes you to somewhere else and for a little while that is where you needed to be.
These are a lot of assumptions about a person you don't know.
As a counterexample, if there were any other substance which could replace vodka and coffee liqueur in their entirety while not containing alcohol, I'd drink Virgin White Russians all day long. Same goes for Jäger. And I have already tried some non-alcoholic gins and they entirely miss the pungency, which is the very element which confers alcohol its unique taste.
No, I genuinely do not like alcohol for its effects. It is not my jam. If I want to enjoy both the buzz and safe dips into my dark place, I smoke a doobie.
As for your argument about music, I think this is the wrong point of comparison. If you're referring to a strictly emotional reaction, taste has that covered all on its own.
You drink alcohol EVERY YEAR?! Wow, look at this boozehound over here.
I love the taste!
I'm also addicted to the substance.
All due respect, I cannot speak for your situation, but neither does your situation for everyone else who likes to sip alcohol.
I cannot stand the taste of cinnamon or licorice, but I don't believe addiction is required to be able to enjoy them.
I think you're reading a bit too much into my statement.
Not at all, which is why I specified this in mine.
I am merely working with what's been given.
That's because the amount of alcohol you need to survive is 0, sugar on the other hand is both, needed and "bad".
You need 0 refined sugar to survive too.
That's a pretty subjective statement as it really depends on whom you're defending it to. Does consuming any amount of alcohol make one an alcoholic? I suppose differing people will have differing definitions.
That's the point, though. Even if you have one beer a week, defending that if challenged to quit will make you sound like an alcoholic.
But that doesn't make sense, one beer a week is absolutely not triggering chemical addiction. At that rate you could attack any ritual behavior, or regular consumption of anything beyond nutrient paste and water
To me the important distinction is between chemical and behavioral addiction, habits and compulsions.
No one said anything about triggering an addiction, or being addicted at all.
It's the act of defending your alcohol consumption that can make you sound like an alcoholic.
Ha, that's actually true. Good one.
It's actually quite simple, sounds like you need to change your friend group
Oh, I don't have friends, it was just a shower thought.
I don't have a drink problem. I drink. I get drunk. I fall down. No problem.
I don't abuse alcohol. I love alcohol, so why would I abuse it?
Why would you need to defend anything?
So nobody takes your booze.