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[โ€“] saigot@lemmy.ca 2 points 29 minutes ago* (last edited 28 minutes ago)

In a video someone discussed the average us household income. Someone commented that that number was actually inflated and it would be better to use median. I found the article the OP was referencing and pointed out that it was in fact the median and pointed out a median is a type of average. They argued for far far too long that average exclusively refers to mean, that median "isn't even an expected value" and that they were right and I was wrong because they are an engineer who works with this all day long. I ended up getting ganged up by several different accounts, I eventually screenshotted the Wikipedia page for average and got them to all delete their posts.

[โ€“] Corno@lemm.ee 2 points 4 hours ago

I was talking with someone from the UK about this article that they showed me. They were outraged by it, and I said I don't see what the problem is with it. They were weirdly fixated on the "asylum seekers" part, to which I told them the article says it will apply to vulnerable persons regardless of immigration status, and I asked them why they were fixating so much on this applying to one specific demographic.

This caused them to go on a tirade about "migrants are getting more rights than people who were born in this country" and how they aren't a racist because they married an Italian. They said "it's all about divide and conquer" and I asked them why they care so much about what ethnicity or nationality a person is, over if they're vulnerable and receiving healthcare equality or not. This quickly devolved into them going on about how the UK is "being taken over by migrants". So, I asked them if they knew any of these migrants, if the UK is "being taken over" by them. They said no.

This started from them watching a YouTube video made by some influencer who was getting angry over the same article. I'm more than convinced that social media can have its bad sides.

[โ€“] AceFuzzLord@lemm.ee 3 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

Well, definitely arguing with my mom over me going outside in winter with hair that wasn't fully dry, when I didn't have time or I'd miss the bus and be late for college. I usually dry my hair enough that if I cover it with a hood or hat during colder days I'm perfectly fine, but she insists that one of these days going out with wet hair in the cold is gonna get me sick, which has never happened. I ain't changing the habit of not fully drying my hair after I get sick from going out with wet hair and that is the sole cause of me getting sick (so, probably never).

[โ€“] SocialMediaRefugee@lemmy.ml 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

I'd hike across campus in college with wet hair and it would be frozen solid by the time I got to class in the winter. lol

[โ€“] AceFuzzLord@lemm.ee 2 points 5 hours ago

I'm lucky I don't live in an area where it normally gets cold enough for my hair to freeze during the cold season. Closest I've ever had to that was a miserably cold winter last year. Only subzero winter I've ever been in and I would never wish it even on my worst enemies.

[โ€“] weeeeum@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

This happens every time I go outside without a coat during winter. If I'm going to the grocery store, and I'm only outside for 60 seconds, I dont need a coat. Obviously if I was going on a hike then I'd need it.

Where'd this myth even come from about cold causing colds? Its even in the name! I can't imagine how many hours of pointless arguing occurred between parents and children because of it

[โ€“] Prime@lemmy.sdf.org 0 points 7 hours ago

No. The cold virus replicates faster in cold environments like your nose. So it is true. But you can just get warm quickly again to counteract.

[โ€“] Yerbouti@sh.itjust.works 2 points 8 hours ago

Let's give more money to billionaires, they will make us rich too.

[โ€“] Alice@beehaw.org 5 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

A really stupid one was when my older sister started tossing out a bunch of random attacks on my character when I was about to drive her to work. I asked when I ever demonstrated any of these traits and she brought up when I jumped into an argument that had nothing to do with me the night before and supposedly said horrible things.

Anyone who knew me would have known I was in my room with headphones watching the Gravity Falls finale the night before. I think that was the first time anyone failed at gaslighting me, because I was that obsessed with Gravity Falls.

I told her to call a cab to work and she started crying. :/ Like, what did you expect...

[โ€“] dethedrus@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Ah, the classic Gravity Falls defense. I use it all the time ;)

One of the best shows I've seen in a long time.

[โ€“] Alice@beehaw.org 2 points 8 hours ago

Anyone with good taste had an alibi that night.

[โ€“] elbowgrease@lemm.ee 11 points 15 hours ago (7 children)

My wife and I bought 10 lottery tickets at a time when the pot got up to 300 million or something like that. we were talking about what we would would do with the money once we won and couldn't agree on how many of our friends mortgages we would pay off. we MAY have had some other things going on in a relationship at that time, but it's still one of the stupidest arguments I've ever gotten in.

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