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[–] sOlitude24k@lemmy.myserv.one 3 points 13 hours ago

Meh. Work isn't for fulfillment. Work is just there so I can eat, pay bills, and fund my hobbies.

[–] dan1101@lemm.ee 8 points 14 hours ago

Sort of sometimes, but everybody gotta eat and everyone needs to do their part or we will be back to hunting and farming.

[–] treefrog@lemm.ee 6 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

I tend to think of most people as being alienated by capitalism because of their jobs. Endlessly fed propaganda and given treats to keep them placated and docile.

We're animals after all. So I don't think of them as shitty people but I instead look for compassion.

That said, unless I'm working for a small business owner I tend to absolutely feel alienated at work and it's crushing. I also have health issues that make work difficult so my relationship with it is extra alienating I suppose.

I guess what I'm trying to tell you is look at your boss as maybe the source of that feeling rather than your fellow working-class people.

Edit: I also live in a working class city, with strong socialist roots. So my view is pretty biased I suppose. In the sense that I'm not living in the middle of a conservative place surrounded by people with vastly different views than myself.

[–] 11111one11111@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago

Shovel 14 tons what do ya get? Another day older and deeper in debt. St. Peter don't you call cuz I anit home. I owe my soul to the company store.

Work has too many variables that make it shitty to think the grass is greener just by changing the location you work in. I've switched industries drastically a couple times and returned to some and feel strongly that people of the similar flock together. So even if you changed the people you work for or with by mowing towns, but dont change careers, it's likely your next job will have the same personality types as the people you currently hate working for.

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

I usually felt this way about the Christian families with lots of children who would come into the restaurant after church and treat everyone rudely and make a huge mess. They did it every Sunday, and it never changed over a period of years. I know they were probably just exhausted and miserable themselves, but lots of exhausted and miserable people out there aren't so entitled, inconsiderate, and rude to workers. Still, it didn't make me feel like not working, I just didn't want to serve those people.

[–] Mac@mander.xyz 1 points 8 hours ago

100%, every day.

[–] aoidenpa@lemmy.world 1 points 8 hours ago
[–] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 hours ago

It's more that society should have asked nicely instead of trying to manipulate me into it with years of brainwashing and coercive economics, so I made it a priority to participate as little as possible and that's on them. Want a functional system, treat people with respect.