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[–] weew@lemmy.ca 53 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (8 children)

Sex scenes in movies are a combination of this weird shameful "I want to show I'm having sex but I can't actually show it" and "It's almost like porn if you removed all the porn."

You're really stuck in a pointless awkward middle ground that satisfies nobody. And 95% of the time it isn't even plot relevant so you're just wasting time. The decline basically just coincides with internet access to the masses.

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[–] businessfish@lemmy.blahaj.zone 41 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

as an asexual person i find other people's opinions on this interesting. the sex scenes do nothing for me and i'm usually just waiting for them to end but i understand my circumstances are not common. i can only assume that someone who is into sex gets something out of sex scenes, otherwise they wouldn't exist.

what i don't understand is the demonizing of sex scenes in movies. like does everyone only watch movies with their parents/kids? i don't like sex scenes due to my asexuality and i'm glad that there are few of them because this cultural shift benefits me specifically (who has never been in the target demographic) in a roundabout way. but i wouldn't say they are all gross/unnecessary/graphic/etc as a blanket statement like i see people in this thread and other places online say. art doesn't need to be for everyone.

[–] RecluseRamble@lemmy.dbzer0.com 33 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

As a sexual person sex scenes do nothing to me either and feel like time lost for the actual plot.

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[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

HuH, I feel like I’m in a minority at least in this thread. I’m definitely interested in the sex scenes. It doesn’t matter how easy it is to find porn, because that’s not in universe nor even “how far” they go on screen since things can be implied. A movie with sexual tension, progressing toward sex is interesting, and external porn is irrelevant to that plot.

Of course that assumes it fits the movie somehow. I definitely agree some sex scenes were just inserted for the prurient interest and really shouldn’t be there. Then again, there are bad films saved only by random appearances of boobs

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[–] XaiwahBlue@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

My question would be how much of this is actors no longer being completely subjected to the gross wims of the director. How many scenes had little to do with a story and felt more like the director using the opportunity to make pretty people obey them.

We have intimacy directors now and what may also be happening is individuals having more say in production and in their bodily autonomy and I don't see that as an issue particularly.

Did random sex scenes really hit the level of art for you folks? Is pornography art the same way? 🤔 You know both are made for mass sale and consumption usually, the same way, much more than trying to make content to say anything.

But um "it so bad we block the titties!" or whatever is popular to say. Even though i personally don't remember many that added anything story related. Show me them bonding in a real way, sex doesn't cement anything if you've ever had a cheating partner, but a real collection of moments spent together between them that shows understanding and sacrifice for each other can really have an impact.

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[–] WoahWoah@lemmy.world 11 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Roughly correlates with the rate of decrease in people 18-30 having sex. I'm not sure of the order of influence there, or if there even is one, but it's possible the declining presence of sex in media is a result of it being less relatable for something like 30% more young people than previous generations.

[–] yessikg@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 2 weeks ago

And of course violence is way too high, damn puritans!

[–] Hegar@fedia.io 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I just find it hard to believe that more films have drugs than profanity.

[–] vovo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

You can't read the chart like that. Everything starts with 100. It shows the decrease/increase of each vice separately.

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[–] bulwark@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Interesting, I thought I noticed this trend but never saw it quantified. I guess the public sentiment changed around '05 about sex in movies. Might be they just get it from pornhub now instead.

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