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When I was on Reddit I felt like my opinion didn’t matter. But here it just feels more open and free.

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[–] robonps@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Lemmy just feels better to comment/interact with. I just feel more motivated to be active on here.

[–] ickplant@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Absolutely, I'm way more active on here. Reddit is so oversaturated, it's impossible to comment on a post before it already has hundreds of comments unless you have time to sit in New and comment as submissions come in. Here, I feel like someone will actually read what I write. Thanks for reading!

[–] Thurgo@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Most of my Reddit commenting was done on threads for people looking for advice in one of my hobbies. I generally had a good experience giving feedback here since most people in the subreddit were level headed. Sometimes you got the occasional asshole parroting the usual online "best way to do something" that goes against some people's actual real life experience that is being shared.

I didn't really make any meaningful (non joke) comments outside of this subreddit since I didn't feel like getting some dick in my notifications trying to start a fight over whatever I posted. Sometimes I didn't mind battling the dicks in the hobby subreddit since people lurking can actually learn or get a different perspective from "No, you shouldn't take what's in a listicle as fact. Here is my experience with this."

[–] Fubarberry@lemmy.fmhy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

Depends, I was mainly active on small subreddits that were focused on things I was interested in. Here those small subs don't exist yet (or are very inactive), but the lower overall user count means I'm interacting with a lot more communities than I would on reddit.

[–] Strangle@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Just started today, but as my reddit activity is going down to zero …. Yes lol

[–] br0da@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

On Reddit I was afraid to comment or post because of the inevitable onslaught of users who would try to start a keyboard fight on the most trivial of topics. It hindered me from just sharing any kind of opinion or cool accomplishment to the point where I would just comment with a one-word or one-liner in hopes it's not petrol. Getting shit on turns you in to a lurker. I've engaged more on Lemmy in the past 2 weeks than I have on Reddit in years. I like it here.

[–] hoodlem@hoodlem.me 3 points 1 year ago

MUCH more active here for me

[–] imgprojts@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

The smaller the community, the bigger the impact of your opinions.

For example, just on my own, I can reach a good 50% impact on anything I say unless my wife says something different.

[–] briongloid@aussie.zone 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My local cities daily thread is more active than it what's left on Reddit, despite the Reddit community having 600k subs. 410 comments on the Reddit thread, 480 on the lemmy community thread.

It's been like this daily.

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[–] annabanana@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

I am definitely feeling more motivated to participate here. It feels like a very welcoming environment so far.

[–] imkmiaw@lemmy.fmhy.ml 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I am a bit more active here than I was in Reddit because I feel like here we don't really find the toxicity we had on Reddit, at least in my opinion.

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Definitely. I'm both posting and commenting way more. I need to do my part to make sure this thing really takes off!

[–] glob@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

This is my second comment since joining this morning, so yes, significantly more active.

I feel like I have seen more conversations on Lemmy about Reddit than original content

I feel like the nays will be underrepresented bc of selection bias so I'll be one.

So far I have not had the same engagement. But I am convinced that is bc I have yet to get used to the jerboa UI/UX. I am more active once I feel at home, was the same for reddit, is the same for lemmy.

Its great that you feel more impactful on lemmy! I think on reddit you either feel the way you have or are constantly being called a slur (say "tankie") and removed/banned left and right.

So far lemmy seems way more authentic to me. Less capital interest, PR companies, bots, astroturf, think tank/gov-adjacent hacks. I like that.

Alos writing this made me realize my mode of commenting is still very much a reddit one

[–] MiddleWeigh@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Yes. Smaller community, and generally more intelligent, or at least more capable of having a meaningful discussion.

I think it's something that happens when you throw a larger group of people together, like reddit, where people act a bit different ime

Even I am less toxic, and more positive. Something about reddit messed that up.

Atp, I'm here more for discourse than any specific content, and that's something I really missed about social media.

[–] z3k3lon 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I haven't browsed Reddit since a couple of weeks now. I am definitely more active on Lemmy.

[–] t0fr@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yes, absolutely. I'm still not sure if it's because the whole community is smaller here, the people are better, no Karma competition, or a combination of all the above

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[–] onlinely@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

Not yet. My niche communities don’t exist in the fediverse yet like they do on Reddit, and I do not have the bandwidth to start new communities right now. Excited to watch it grow and continue to contribute where I can.

[–] thesanewriter@vlemmy.net 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I definitely am. I may have more comments and posts here than on Reddit already and I have only been here a fraction of the time.

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[–] Md1501@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

I have not been on reddit since the protest, but I didnt post or comment a lot anyway so probably not much of an impact

[–] jax@lemmy.cloudhub.social 2 points 1 year ago

Yes, I am significantly more active here than I was on Reddit (at least recently, my decline on posting/commenting on Reddit started a few years ago).

[–] Uriel238@lemmy.fmhy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

Considering I am totally inactive on Reddit now, yes.

[–] meyotch@slrpnk.net 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I’m making myself be active here. I’m learning to build my own lemmy instance on a VPS.

I want there to be a sea change in social media. I want an authentic intellectual conversation. I was in college during the usenet era and found it easy to find mind expanding stuff there with a minimum of toxicity.

My hope is the community and software mature steadily together until it is ready to handle a significant influx.

Let’s not reward toxicity. We need to steer the conversation and the software development to reward quality engagement over quantity.

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[–] dap@lemmy.onlylans.io 2 points 1 year ago

Absolutely. As much as I loved Reddit, I always felt drowned out due to the large user base and was hesitant to share my opinion. Thanks to Lemmy and its (currently) smaller communities, I feel like my voice has wider reach or, at the very least, less aggressive competition.

[–] Kongar@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 year ago

Agreed - stopped posting and sharing on Reddit a while ago. I engage more and find this place more engaging. It’s good!

[–] Pyrux@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

Only reason I visit reddit now is to see how the dumpster fire is going

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