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I'm currently struggling to find my home. I have an account here at lemmy.ml, where most of my posts are, and one at kbin.

Why do you think your instance is the place to be?

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[–] moridinbg@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I did not. I ended up on lemmy.world but visiting over, which I think is a cool feature.

[–] minorsecond@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I guess a better question would have been, "Why did you choose your instance?"

[–] simple@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

Lemmy World is run by chill people with experience. They run Mastodon.world, which is a top 10 Mastodon instance.

Since the start it's been the most stable instance I think, they bought a beefy server after all the Reddit shenanigans and aren't imposing any weird restrictions. Would recommend.

[–] SickIcarus@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I joined sh.itjust.works because I like the domain. It makes me smile πŸ™‚

[–] minorsecond@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I read the thread where that domain was born, lol. It was pretty funny.

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[–] burgersc12@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I like the domain and it wasn't overloaded like most of the Lemmy.xx ones. I was torn between this and beehaw, glad i went with sh.itjust.works

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[–] gigachad@feddit.de 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

feddit.de because it was made for german potatoes like me

[–] fennec@feddit.de 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] SevFTW@feddit.de 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Munching on fries rn is this cannabilism?

[–] fennec@feddit.de 2 points 1 year ago

Yes and I’ve contacted the authorities thanks for the tip

[–] Zifnab25@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not gonna lie. I've got multiple accounts across platforms. But yours seems to be responding quickly and the content is solid, so... here I am.

[–] Z______@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

Yeah, I was a bit confused at the start and in my haste created a few different accounts across kbin, lemmy.world, and Mastodon. Worst case scenario I have backups and I'll just end up using the instance I prefer the most, the most.

[–] CeruleanRuin@lemmy.one 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I just picked lemmy.one mostly at random, but also in part because it advertised itself as well regulated but also not heavily populated and thus prone to crashing with the recent influx of reddfugees.

Seems to work okay, but I can't create a community without admin approval and the instance also disallows downvoting, and I'm not a big fan of that at all, but I'll give it a while longer and see.

I'm still finding it a challenge to find the balance of communities that interest me I used to have. There's an awful lot of meta chatter about the site itself from new users that, while I understand, gets rather annoying when it takes up the whole feed. So it's definitely an adjustment, resulting in me using it less than I did my old haunts, but in the meantime I've gotten a lot more reading done than I used to, so I've got that going for me.

Might want to read up on the founder of lemmy.one Jonah and his past dealings. I would not expect a great deal of free speech regarding this topic on your own instance.

https://www.privacytools.io/guides/jonah-aragon-privacyguides-failed-attempt-to-takeover

[–] Fmstrat@lemmy.one 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Didn't realize I couldn't downvote. Might be time to look elsewhere.

[–] CeruleanRuin@lemmy.one 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Me, I'm waiting for things to settle a bit and see what recommendations float to the surface for me. Not being able to downvote might turn out to actually be good for my own mental health. We'll see.

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[–] SavvyWolf@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

I joined Beehaw early on when things where a lot quieter because I liked what they were trying to do (and back then there were only like two instances, and I didn't want to put more load on lemmy.ml).

Joined sh.itjust.works to make a community after the sysadmin just casually walked up with a huge server, which is a level of swagger I can get behind. I've since moved to this as my "main" account since Beehaw defederated with lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works (which sucks, but is understandable).

May move again to pawb.social at some point, although that means people will know something about me. :P

Edit: And now pawb.social has defederated with sh.itjust.works... I'm getting more and more tempted to just roll my own personal instance just for me...

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The github page said to pick one at rasdom and not over think it.

[–] ganksy@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago

I chose lemmy.world solely on the fact it had a lot of members. Lemmy.ml was a contender too. I just wanted to jump in and check things out. Knowing (slightly)more now, I don't think it was a bad choice.

[–] Pisck@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I joined lemmy.ml because the join-lemmy site gave me extremely little to go on. It was a coin toss between this and beehaw.org once I realized how few instances were established and not right-wing.

That was only 2 weeks ago and already I've seen the site force 2 server upgrades, even as the admins have strongly encouraged new users to join elsewhere to prevent centralization.

The instance list desperately needs a few columns added, including whether new signups are encouraged or discouraged.

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[–] AlchemicalAgent@mander.xyz 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I joined mander.xyz because it has a central theme around the natural sciences. It could possibly include STEM content as well; there is an ongoing discussion about it. The admin(s) are present and very responsive.

For anyone with a love of science and/or nature I recommend it highly as a home instance of Lemmy.

[–] alternative_factor@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm trying to set up another account at mander but I haven't had any success.

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[–] grant@toast.ooo 4 points 1 year ago

I run a Mastodon server and Lemmy started to grow, happened to find a cool domain so here we are

[–] Tatar_Nobility@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

Back in my day, the only instance that federated with all other instances was lemmy.ml πŸ‘΄πŸ»

[–] CheshireSnake@iusearchlinux.fyi 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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lemmy.world seemed reputable with a straightforward domain name, and no out-of-the-ordinary policies.

[–] dotslashme@infosec.pub 3 points 1 year ago

infosec.pub because their communities were interesting.

[–] Andreas@feddit.dk 3 points 1 year ago (4 children)

feddit.dk. I wanted a regional instance as my home instance, because they tend to be chill with controlled growth, while also having native language discussions. My country didn't have a Lemmy instance at the time, so I picked the closest option. I love Denmark and they don't seem too annoyed by my presence (yet). Thanks for having me 🫢🏻 πŸ‡©πŸ‡°

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[–] HybridHuman@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm using https://lemmy.dbzer0.com because I can't start an account in lemmy.ml

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Lemmy.ml re-opened registration but I had problems signing up. Lemmy.world seemed like the next best option.

[–] Garrathian@fanaticus.social 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

My current instance has a bunch of sports communities, and typically the first thing i like to look at when i was on reddit were the sports subs. I was previously on beehaw but they kind of shut themselves off from some of other big communities so i migrated off

[–] KiranWells@pawb.social 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Was looking for a furry one, and pawb.social seemed to be well-run (since it was related to a couple of decently-sized Mastodon servers) and was generic enough (and not NSFW focused). There also seemed to be a decent number of technical people there as well (in fact, one of the Mastodon instances is furry.engineer), so it matched up with my other interests as well. I considered lemmyrs.org, but ended up not choosing it.

[–] LapGoat@pawb.social 2 points 1 year ago

same, went for the furry one.

[–] lixus98@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I chose kbin, loved the integration with mastodon

Yeah I love the ability to use both at once.

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[–] bigmanjezza@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

lemmy.ml was broken and lemmy.world was the first one I saw besides that one. that's about it

edit: did a bit of scrolling, sounds like kbin might be a better fit, what do y'all feel is better?

[–] mdwhite999@vlemmy.net 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Vlemmy.net as it currently hasn't defederated from anyone or been defederated.

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I initially used reddthat.com because I've already tried 5 different instances and the sign up doesnt work. Then I remembered about the piracy community, so i switched over to lemmy.dbzer0.com, a pirate heaven. Feels like home. πŸ˜ŽπŸ΄β€β˜ οΈ

I was curious when I heard about Kbin. I like it so far

[–] small44@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm on Beehaw because there are no downvote button

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[–] hsl@wayfarershaven.eu 2 points 1 year ago

I created my own because I wanted a more specific type of instance, a place that I would want to read the local feed rather than just see randomness. I also wanted to create a space that I felt at home.

You're welcome to come say hello at Wayfarers' Haven - sign-ups are open but do need a short application to keep things ship-shape.

[–] Cyder@lemmy.one 2 points 1 year ago

Knowing that Beehaw and Lemmy.ml were overloaded, I chose the next biggest one in my country at the time, which was Lemmy.one.

I made an account at kbin.social and just went with it. It's all gonna be federated anyway (unless it gets defederated) and each day actually feels like it's improving.

[–] Skooshjones@vlemmy.net 2 points 1 year ago

Randomly came across mine. Was gunna join a larger instance just for testing, but it was right as the big Reddit rush was happening and my signups kept failing.

So I went with this one.

[–] Tahssi@yiffit.net 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I was looking for a furry one. Found pawb.social and yiffit. Stuck with the one that had nsfw. They both are Lemmy instances

[–] kersploosh@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

Joined sh.itjust.works since it's located in North America, has open registration, and the admin sounds like he knows what he's doing running a server. I've stayed 'cause it's been stable and I like the admin's vibe. It and lemmy.world seem to have become the main large "general purpose" instances since they both have open registration.

I also have an account on kbin that I'm not using much at the moment. I think that site has lots of future potential, though.

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