I am not sure if it will help you know more people, but Deep Rock Galactic has one of the most friendly Multiplayer experiences I ever had. You will find a lemon from time to time, but in general it is a great community as long as you Rock and Stone when someone Rock and Stones to you (you will understand) :-)
Edit: And, probably not a coincidence, DRG has awesome Developers and the general tone of the game is just... wholesome I think is the right word :-)