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Do you have any pet peeves (small things that piss you tf off) that don’t seem rational really? I definitely do. People that cut lines seem like an obvious one, had that happen earlier today and I reinforced the rule and went ahead of the line-cutter, I felt good about myself😃, but I digress, my #1 Pet Peeve is people talking to me at the urinal. My dick is out, can you not make convo rn?? Maybe it’s just me but in my most vulnerable state, I want some privacy, save your analysis of the weather for when I’m washing my hands at the very least. Sorry, needed to vent a bit bc it happens a lot, what pet peeves do yall have?

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[–] DankZedong@lemmygrad.ml 13 points 11 months ago (1 children)

As someone who takes the metro daily: not letting people off first and also people standing together at the entrance when there's room elsewhere in the metro. Like, it's not that hard: people get off and create space for the people that get on, and everyone is happy. Cramming yourself through people trying to get off is not going to help you.

[–] ButtigiegMineralMap@lemmygrad.ml 8 points 11 months ago

Same, personal space has been a big issue for me ever since Covid. Before that I wouldn’t mind squeezing through a few people, now I just wait for people to pass by so I don’t get too close

[–] knfrmity@lemmygrad.ml 9 points 11 months ago (1 children)

In the region I live in the midday workplace greeting is "mealtime." Not only do I find it generally cringey, I absolutely do not want to be greeted with "mealtime" when I am going to the toilet.

I also can't handle it when people (probably unconsciously) weave from left to right on walking paths, or when groups take up the whole path. Pick a side and stay there, don't block people who walk faster or are on wheels.

[–] ButtigiegMineralMap@lemmygrad.ml 3 points 11 months ago

Lol my brother hates when people line up horizontally to walk in a group down a sidewalk or mall walkway, he says that they think they’re like the characters from Friends

[–] Valbrandur@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 11 months ago

People standing on the left side of the escalator. Come on people, the right side is for standing and the left side is a fast lane for people who are in a hurry. It's basic civic behaviour.

people talking to me at the urinal. My dick is out, can you not make convo rn??

That's not a pet peeve, that's being the victim of a war crime.

[–] MinekPo1@lemmygrad.ml 5 points 11 months ago

I had my day ruined (not today) because it turned out to be impossible to arrange boxes of beads in any meaningful way

[–] Aru@lemmygrad.ml 5 points 11 months ago

So here and in other parts of the world, people kiss each other as a greeting, which fine but some people do it instantly when they see each other meaning I try to get on the bus but some girl named Rabi' is blocking the road kissing her friend Khadija that she had a class with just this morning. It takes a few seconds and it's nice to like have friends and be close to them but shit annoys me