My partner doesn't understand the urge. He says silly things like "why do you want to bite me" and "please stop ambushing my with your mouth." He often retaliates by slobbering all over me, which is gross and yucky. How do I make him understand I'm not in control of the urge, and that I need to be satiated?

[–] IanSomnia@lemmy.world 10 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Try to make an analogy to a dog or cat. They have biting needs and we give them appropriate toys to satiate that craving. They just needs to accept that they're the only toy that can satiated your natural instincts.

[–] zaknenou@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 10 months ago

"You got to understand, you just need to accept that you're the only toy that can satiate my natural instincts"

[–] bbpolterGAYst@lemmy.blahaj.zone 22 points 10 months ago (1 children)

so true bestie. sometimes i wish i had a partner so that i could give them love bites. and for some reason i also want to, like, actually bite off a piece of their flesh. and eat it. i dont know why

[–] Dfy@lemm.ee 7 points 10 months ago

That's why my girlfriend bites me THAT hard. Ouch

[–] joyjoy@lemm.ee 21 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Can confirm. As a man, I have never chewed my food.

[–] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 4 points 10 months ago

#JustWomanThings

[–] TheBlue22@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 10 months ago

I always wondered why my gf likes biting me

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 12 points 10 months ago

Me when I see someone:

[–] ZILtoid1991@kbin.social 12 points 10 months ago (1 children)

No, it's more of a neurodivergent thing.

[–] hulemy@ani.social 27 points 10 months ago (1 children)

chomp

[–] metaStatic@kbin.social 19 points 10 months ago (1 children)

talk shit get bit

[–] ZILtoid1991@kbin.social 11 points 10 months ago

It's okay, they can bite me.

[–] ZILtoid1991@kbin.social 5 points 10 months ago

chomps back

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[–] ApfelstrudelWAKASAGI@feddit.de 11 points 10 months ago

Fish when they see bait:

[–] samus12345@lemmy.world 7 points 10 months ago (1 children)

[–] snugglebutt@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Does for bathtubs what Jaws did for the ocean.

[–] samus12345@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

[–] HoodieGyaru@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Bite me!

[–] LordAmplifier@pawb.social 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

chomp

[–] HoodieGyaru@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 10 months ago

Ahn~

[–] CCF_100@sh.itjust.works 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

My girlfriend has never bitten me, I'm confused...

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 6 points 10 months ago

She has exceptional self control.

[–] Okokimup@lemmy.world 5 points 10 months ago

Ok so it's not just me.

[–] ComradeSpood@lemmyunchained.net 4 points 10 months ago

I had to lay down ground rules cause my gf bites me so much

[–] CJOtheReal@ani.social 3 points 10 months ago

To bite Cookie ice-cream