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Person sitting saying: "Male??", "Female??" Who knows? I love trolling!".

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[–] BluJay320@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Can’t tell if I want to be or date… or both.

[–] bbpolterGAYst@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 7 months ago

selfcest wins

[–] ThatFembyWho@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 7 months ago (3 children)

"so what are your prounons?"

"they/them"

awkward pause while confusion intensifies

"oh"

Every single time. No I didn't reveal any information about what's in my pants, sorry 8D

[–] Gonzako@lemmy.world 8 points 7 months ago

That we'll figure out later today ;)

[–] TheDarksteel94@sopuli.xyz 6 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Shouldn't people already expecting something like that if they ask you for your pronouns? Now I'm confused 😅

[–] ThatFembyWho@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I figure most people are thinking in binary terms and want an indication of whether I'm a boy or a girl. And sometimes maybe "am I attracted to this person or would that make me gay?!"

at least I can pretend they are asking themselves that question, to which the answer is obviously, always YES it is gay xD

[–] TheDarksteel94@sopuli.xyz 3 points 7 months ago

Lol, yeah, makes sense 😄

[–] violetraven@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

The worst is having to talk and it all falls apart 😮‍💨

[–] ThatFembyWho@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 7 months ago (1 children)

i feel ya there... that's why I'm starting voice therapy, first real session tomorrow afternoon <3 hope you get to work on your voice and achieve what you're looking for!

[–] violetraven@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 7 months ago

I'm trying 😅 Had 6 sessions with a vocal therapist a year ago and felt like it helped avoiding damaging strain. I hope you have positive results and have fun with the silliness 💖

[–] June@lemm.ee 11 points 7 months ago (1 children)

God I wish I could figure out how to be androgynous. Too many masc features and I’m not interested in HRT….. am I?

Well damn…. I should look into that maybe….

[–] DillyDaily@lemmy.world 6 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Ooof, I feel that. But I can't seem to consistently feel the same way about my features for more than 2 months at a time so doing anything to change feels like a gamble.

Anyone else think shape shifting is the best super power because you could just always be yourself, but with whatever bits you want that day?

[–] June@lemm.ee 3 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Honestly shapeshifting is the dream

[–] Colour_me_triggered@lemm.ee 10 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I have a friend who looks a wee bit like that. I'd pump them.

[–] bfg9k@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Male? Female? Who knows? I love fucking.

[–] 1847953620@lemmy.world 1 points 7 months ago

that's the spirit

[–] SVcross@lemmy.world 10 points 7 months ago

Chaos is my fuel and motivation for everything.

[–] Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 7 months ago

Something in between? Something entirely different? I love trolling!

[–] assplode@kbin.social 7 points 7 months ago (1 children)
[–] name_NULL111653@pawb.social 1 points 2 months ago

I'm transfem enby, and myself is what made me realise I'm also bi... Selfcest is great lol

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 6 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Hello Celeste from hit indie video game Celeste

[–] celeste@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 7 months ago

Hello apotheotic from lemmyverse server beehaw.org

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 4 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I don't care, just hug me.

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 3 points 3 months ago

"What's in your pants?!"

Pulls out a Glock

I know, I love it when people get confused because they can't tell, though I do wish I didn't also look like a kid because it's kinda embarrassing to be asked by someone if my parents know where my parents are because they think I'm 12 or 14. (Should add that's just bc of my genetics, I haven't taken anything to change my appearance).

[–] x4740N@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago

This image is giving me major feminine gender envy feelings