Remember guys and gals, it's not body shaming when men are on the receiving end!
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"This person conducts themselves with a confidence that usually comes with physical traits typically considered desirable."
That's why I prefer 'big ballsack energy' It's something every male can achieve with enough waiting or the right diet.
Are you implying the term Big Dick Energy is body shaming men?
Yes. It equates body types with positive/negative traits. ie. "Big dick energy" implies "small dick = bad"
I could see how the phrase implies that, however this meme subverts that by saying that dick size doesn't matter as much as your energy does. And the meme literally says that small dick energy is bad, not having a small pp.
Small dick energy is bad but not small dicks? How does that make any sense. Think about it.
Bruh the only time I've ever used the term BDE is to imply that the size of your pp doesn't matter with this meme. Im sorry its upset you, but i dont really care. Trans men can have BDE without even having a dick. YOU are the one implying that small dicks are bad, not me.
Saying small dick energy is just a different way of calling someone out for acting insecure it has nothing to do with the size of their dick.
Insecure like someone with a....?
Insecurity problem
doesn't matter as much
Can we shut the fuck up about being sensitive to everything. Just for a day. Sincerely guy with small dick. Its cold out. Always.
The thing about this is, you're saying you have a small dick, but this is big dick energy for real.
Maybe someone needs to come up with a better name for it because it's a very real phenomenon and most of us know exactly what it's referring to.
Sorry that adapting is uncomfortable but no
Serious small dick energy bro.
No :(
I think it's analogous to referring to balls the size of wrecking balls or something. I don't know of anyone who thinks bigger physical balls are superior to smaller balls, but the phrase is still common to denote courage. I think big dick energy is not as decoupled from people's biology as big balls, but it's still mostly decoupled in common usage.
It does literally refer to penis size. Hiding it behind the word "energy" is just obfuscation. It reminds me of racist people defending the N word by saying, "there's black people, then there's Ns. Black people are fine, Ns aren't."
You're just kicking the can down the road. It's the exact same idea, phrased differently. You just wanna say "small dick" and get away with it, that's all.
Lmao wat?
Try raising your speech level above 0 before responding.
Bruh you just compared using the term BDE to the N word.
I compared one instance of belittling offence to another instance of it. Keep up.
I even added explicit reasoning afterwards in case you got distracted, but you still couldn't help yourself.
Maybe try responding to my point itself, instead of the analogy that came with it?
You’re just kicking the can down the road. It’s the exact same idea, phrased differently.
Lmao you have such debate lord energy, the meme i shared literally says your pp size doesn't matter. The fact that you equated BDE with using the N word shows how out of touch with reality you are.
Yeah, you say dick size doesn't actually matter, but you're still talking about dick size. The word "energy" is just an excuse, so you can say "small dick" without being called out.
I never said small dick till YOU did lmfao
Sure buddy. "Big dick energy" exists in a vacuum and isn't the counterpart to "small dick energy".
How gullible do you think I am?
MFer did you just compare "small dick energy" to the n word 💀
Did you just describe what I did in a reductive way, without even attempting to explain your point? Why should I listen to you?
spoken like one with little dick energy.
"A specter is haunting Europe, the specter of deez nuts"
Except when a lady friend wants a big dick, then all the big dick energy in the world isn't going to do a lick of good, that's when you have to bring out the lick of good.
This is why I only get with ladies who like men that are the spitting image of Edgar Allen Poe. Never leave em disappointed.
Is that why he grieved for lost Lenore, he couldn't find another who insisted on never more, just enough.
Can confirm, having a big dick really hasn’t helped me out.
Me neither. But, having big dick energy with a big dick is pretty awesome.
¿Porque no los dos?
Not for happiness
It's a lot easier to have the energy if you've got it though. It just comes naturally. Being tall helps too.
...until you get in bed
Women 100% care more about your energy than your dick size.
It's not the size of the boat, it's the emotion of the ocean.
You can compensate for a smaller penis by making a big show of crying after sex.
Big dicks hurt women, most seem to prefer average sizes. Plus, penetration is often less effective at bringing women to orgasm than oral or fingering, which nearly anyone can learn to do well.
No reason not having a big dick should stop anyone from having a good time.
The women I've been with were all different. Different things get them off, pain is perceived differently, orgasms achieved in different ways.
Women are not all the same.