this post was submitted on 11 Sep 2023
249 points (92.5% liked)

Memes

45581 readers
1940 users here now

Rules:

  1. Be civil and nice.
  2. Try not to excessively repost, as a rule of thumb, wait at least 2 months to do it if you have to.

founded 5 years ago
MODERATORS
 
top 15 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] foggy@lemmy.world 27 points 1 year ago (3 children)

is part of a generation of parents who voted and agreed upon giving children participation trophies

Belittles those children as adults for receiving the participation trophies they dreamed up

Annoyed adolescents

Surprised geriatrics

[–] lars@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago

us: participation trophies made of white ribbon

them: participation trophies made of living wages and home ownership

[–] poweruser@lemmy.sdf.org 10 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Also, I have never, ever actually received a so-called participation trophy. As far as I know they made it up just to be dicks

[–] Alto@kbin.social 9 points 1 year ago

Had a couple medals from tee-ball leagues and stuff, but it really served more as a souvineer to remember it by. The team that won still got an actual trophy.

[–] TheFlopster@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I did once! Technically it was a participation ribbon. Picture it: Southern California, 1993, school foot race. I was 8 years old. The winners got the blue ribbon and the whatever second place was colored ribbon. And everybody else (me) got a white participation ribbon.

[–] harmonea@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Yeah, this is consistent with my experience too. I got one or two participation ribbons in my whole school life (graduated early 2000s), but they weren't common, and they never came at the exclusion of winners being recognized.

[–] foggy@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm too old for em, but folks born after like 1995 got em

[–] kek_w_lol@lemmy.one 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Are you sure? Never got mine :) had to work for every single trophy I got.

[–] HotDogFingies@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

We fucked you guys over in every imaginable way and now we're blaming you for it. I'm so sorry.

[–] foggy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I mean I am sure in that I coached teams as a 22 year old that received participation trophies in the same leagues in which I did not, yes

[–] spauldo@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

Closest I've seen was my kid getting one for a charity run. I'm not sure it counts since it wasn't a race - everyone who ran got the same ribbon. My kid didn't even run - he was a scout and volunteered to raise the flag and lead the Pledge of Allegiance.

I think it's probably one of those things that happened in a few places and the right wingers talk about it like it happens everywhere.

[–] LittleWizard@feddit.de 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

We get participation trophies because we can't win at life anymore.

[–] RQG@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

This made me sigh and chuckle at the same time.

[–] tagirijus@feddit.de 11 points 1 year ago

In germany it counts as violence already, if parents permanently shout at their kids. Source: BGB §1631 and StGB §223.

[–] original_ish_name@lemm.ee -1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

"His father then punished him severely"

- Hitler, OverSimplified