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A commune or a cult would be better than this circus lol

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[–] dark_stang@beehaw.org 42 points 1 year ago (4 children)

If you can find one that isn't a weird sex cult, let me know.

[–] baseless_discourse@mander.xyz 41 points 1 year ago (2 children)

On the other hand, if you find a werid sex cult, let me know.

[–] LoamImprovement@beehaw.org 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'd settle for just a normal sex cult.

[–] baseless_discourse@mander.xyz 19 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

NEVER SETTLE

[–] jarfil@beehaw.org 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] cubedsteaks@lemmy.today 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

god I was hoping it was like tourists show up and just get laid by natives but instead it's just weird cuckolding.

[–] jarfil@beehaw.org 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

tourists show up and just get laid

That would be Ibiza... but it only works during summer.

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[–] liv@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That article kind of presents an idyllic/outdated view of the Himba people. Modern life affects them as well and a lot of young people don't want to live like that.

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[–] pjhenry1216@kbin.social 29 points 1 year ago

Whoa whoa whoa. Let's not limit our options prematurely.

[–] DavidGarcia@feddit.nl 9 points 1 year ago

you gotta suck a few eggs to make an omelette

[–] starbreaker@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago

What if it was just a vanilla sex cult?

[–] ErisShrugged@beehaw.org 29 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Does the cult have a good plan for healthcare? If so, please send me your newsletter, manifesto, religious tract, pentabarf, whatever.

[–] Milksteaks@midwest.social 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'd settle for a cult with a good dentist tbh. According to US healthcare eyes and teeth are separate from the rest of your body.

[–] loops@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

We call teeth "Luxury Bones" up here in Canada.

[–] Sombyr@lemmy.one 17 points 1 year ago

As somebody who was once part of a cult, it's just the same circus but worse.

[–] storksforlegs@beehaw.org 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I dont know, you cant really go shopping for cults. Cults go shopping for you.

[–] jayemar@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago

In soviet Russia...

[–] itmightbethew@beehaw.org 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Why not a commune IN the city?

Not saying this is you, but I feel like a lotta people who wanna live in the country also want all the city amenities - internet, garbage pickup, municipal sewage, etc.

To me, the problem isn't cities, it's late stage capitalism - gentrifying neighbourhoods, driving rents beyond reach, displacing communities. Plus its zeal for car-focused infrastructure, conspicuous consumption. All that stuff.

Anyway communal life is very appealing - I long for my college days of living in a house full of peers. Even if i'm off-base with my capitalism ruins the city argument, I think we'd all do better at coping with modern life with a wider support network.

I hear they are growing more popular in the bay area? Gideon Lichfield, outgoing editor-in-chief at Wired, mentions he spends half his year living in a commune of sorts and would like to do it full time in this podcast.

https://www.wired.com/story/have-a-nice-future-podcast-19/

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[–] Tehgingey@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 year ago

If you've ever heard of WOOFing that's a great place to start. It's a work trade program I did years ago, tons of farms around the world. You get room and board, just work the farm for a short term. I traveled across Canada doing that years ago and ended up staying on one for 2 years in the discovery islands off the coast of BC. One of the best times in my life. Now I live in downtown Toronto, wondering why I ever came back ahaha

[–] MrGG@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Already planning on it here in Canada once my friends and I have the money for what we want to do.

Farming (+greenhousing) and some cottage rentals on the side.

Peace out, modern society!

[–] mayo@lemmy.today 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Cottage rentals for income?

Currently my plan is to get far enough into my career that I can spend half my time in city making money and half in the woods

[–] MrGG@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Exactly, cottage rentals for income. To supplement farming and other ventures, anyway.

I'm lucky that my work is 99.9% remote, so as long as I can acquire a stable internet connect I can continue to work out there if needed. Existing entirely in the woods is incredibly appealing.

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[–] Kwakigra@beehaw.org 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Very often I would like to abandon my life in reality and become a part of an ideal world which I have imagined. It is surprisingly easy to become part of a rural cult (look up "intentional communities") so it's a backup plan I have in mind if necessary, but with people we're going to be dealing with a different version of the same set of issues. We as a species are nuts.

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[–] emma@beehaw.org 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't come anywhere near close to meeting the requirements for intentional communities. Chronic illness is a real bastard. I don't need much and the quality of my life could so easily be improved by just a little help from others, but everyone - even intentional communities - is caught up in focusing on how much others can help them. What I can give is less tangible, and therefore dismissed.

I don't want to abandon society but I do recognise we'd all be far better off if we lived in ways which were less isolating. Every person/family for themselves harms us all.

[–] ParsnipWitch@feddit.de 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

A huge problem is that most neighborhoods and houses aren't facilitating community. You don't need a commune or a cult as OP was joking.

I live in a house where one of the apartments is used communally by all the other residents of the house and it changes so much. It doesn't have a functioning bathroom so the landlords couldn't give it up for rent. But it has a kitchen, a balcony etc.

[–] MangoKangaroo@beehaw.org 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

No, but finding a job in a slightly less fucked country would be great once I have sufficient work experience.

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[–] dylanmorgan@slrpnk.net 10 points 1 year ago

I’ve thought for a while that it would be cool to buy up a block in a suburb and do urban farming as a community.

[–] ClarissaDarling@beehaw.org 8 points 1 year ago (4 children)

It's a beautiful dream! Almost a decade ago my family and I left the city and bought land with some other folks. Now it's just us out here in the wilderness, others are welcome but most people can't leave the city.

[–] Leafeytea@beehaw.org 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It can't be too "wild" out there, if you are able to pop into Beehaw...? 😂

I would love someplace totally off the grid.

[–] ClarissaDarling@beehaw.org 3 points 1 year ago

Starlink is everywhere! There is no cell service here so we had much more limited communication prior.

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[–] outer_spec@lemmy.studio 7 points 1 year ago

I would but in a commune they would probably just force me to mine or farm all day instead of doing a job I actually want

[–] Erdrick@beehaw.org 7 points 1 year ago

My dad did it back when he was a hippy.
He still talks very fondly of the time he spent out in the Arizona desert all those decades ago.

A piece of me would like to drop out of society and live in solitude.
While I lean towards being a loner, I realized that I am probably mostly a hybrid.
I enjoy some human interaction, but also love being alone to do whatever the fuck I want.
To me a commune would be too intimate and I think would end up being like a small town type of scenario which doesn’t appeal to me.

[–] NarrativeNavigator@lemmy.basedcount.com 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

That's a good idea. It would be interesting to create an ideal communist utopia on a small scale so we can see how/if it actually works. Do it!

[–] moonsnotreal@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The Spanish tried this in the 30's. It was a part of the Spanish civil war and is an interesting read. I'd also recommend On Anarchism by Noam Chomsky which goes more in depth.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spanish_Revolution_of_1936

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[–] ALostInquirer@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

What about a traveling circus? Bonuses: it's mobile, it's a circus by design, it's inclusive, and goofing around is just part of the culture!

[–] metaStatic@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

I've always said if you don't want to work for clowns join the circus

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[–] Arotrios@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Abandon society - yes. Commune - JFC no. Vagabond gypsy caravan? Possibly, but only if there are werewolves and mysteriously sexy tarot card casters involved.

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[–] along_the_road@beehaw.org 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I just want more affordable housing

[–] CaptKoala@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago

The fact the term "affordable housing" exists is the problem, all housing should be affordable, it's a necessity, not a damn profitmobile.

[–] iegod@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

Peace. More bandwidth for the rest of us.

[–] Wahots@pawb.social 3 points 1 year ago

I feel pretty happy in a city where I feel welcome and the neighborhood is fun. I got my family and friends around, and my bf only lives a short drive away :)

Nature isn't too far away either.

[–] nicktron@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

I talk about this a lot - mostly tongue in cheek (mostly) - and my partner always calls me the Unabomber afterwards, or asks when I’m publishing my manifesto.

I’m not a people person and society seems to be getting worse, plus I love rugged living and being outdoors. I can dig it.

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