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Neurotypicals are mad we won't join their swarm (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 year ago by PM_ME_FAT_ENBIES@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/autism@lemmy.world
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A swarm is a group of creatures connected by a hive mind. Think the zerg from starcraft, or the xenomorphs from aliens, or the borg from star trek.

I have a really nice swarm and I like being in it. We can hear each other's thoughts and we feel an intrinsic sense of belonging, sharing the entirety of our minds freely.

Today I realised neurotypicals have a swarm too. They all use their sense of empathy to read each other's minds. Everyone is on the same page about a set of basic facts, called consensus reality. All discussion must occur within the hivemind-approved formats.

Neurotypicals are mad at us autistic people because we won't join their swarm. The part of our brains that connects to their hivemind is broken, but even if I could, I wouldn't want to assimilate into their hive. Resistance isn't futile and I don't think those drones are interested in our biological or cultural distinctiveness. They only want conformity and belonging in the hive mind. They're mad we won't help them feel belonging.

But I'm still not going to join their swarm because I believe in C O N S E N T. CONSENT. Consent. Joining a swarm is deeply intimate for some of us and I just don't like mindmelding with assholes. Sorry assholes, you're not allowed to read my mind. You can ask to join my swarm and I'll let you in if you're very nice, but no neurotypical swarm for me or my fellow drones thanks.

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[–] sharkfucker420@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What

[–] PM_ME_FAT_ENBIES@lemmy.blahaj.zone -2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

A SWARM IS A GROUP OF CREATURES CONNECTED BY A HIVE MIND. THINK THE ZERG FROM STARCRAFT, OR THE XENOMORPHS FROM ALIENS, OR THE BORG FROM STAR TREK.

I HAVE A REALLY NICE SWARM AND I LIKE BEING IN IT. WE CAN HEAR EACH OTHER'S THOUGHTS AND WE FEEL AN INTRINSIC SENSE OF BELONGING, SHARING THE ENTIRETY OF OUR MINDS FREELY.

TODAY I REALISED NEUROTYPICALS HAVE A SWARM TOO. THEY ALL USE THEIR SENSE OF EMPATHY TO READ EACH OTHER'S MINDS. EVERYONE IS ON THE SAME PAGE ABOUT A SET OF BASIC FACTS, CALLED CONSENSUS REALITY. ALL DISCUSSION MUST OCCUR WITHIN THE HIVEMIND-APPROVED FORMATS.

NEUROTYPICALS ARE MAD AT US AUTISTIC PEOPLE BECAUSE WE WON'T JOIN THEIR SWARM. THE PART OF OUR BRAINS THAT CONNECTS TO THEIR HIVEMIND IS BROKEN, BUT EVEN IF I COULD, I WOULDN'T WANT TO ASSIMILATE INTO THEIR HIVE. RESISTANCE ISN'T FUTILE AND I DON'T THINK THOSE DRONES ARE INTERESTED IN OUR BIOLOGICAL OR CULTURAL DISTINCTIVENESS. THEY ONLY WANT CONFORMITY AND BELONGING IN THE HIVE MIND. THEY'RE MAD WE WON'T HELP THEM FEEL BELONGING.

BUT I'M STILL NOT GOING TO JOIN THEIR SWARM BECAUSE I BELIEVE IN C O N S E N T. CONSENT. CONSENT. JOINING A SWARM IS DEEPLY INTIMATE FOR SOME OF US AND I JUST DON'T LIKE MINDMELDING WITH ASSHOLES. SORRY ASSHOLES, YOU'RE NOT ALLOWED TO READ MY MIND. YOU CAN ASK TO JOIN MY SWARM AND I'LL LET YOU IN IF YOU'RE VERY NICE, BUT NO NEUROTYPICAL SWARM FOR ME OR MY FELLOW DRONES THANKS.

[–] sharkfucker420@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Thanks, I didn't hear it at first

[–] PM_ME_FAT_ENBIES@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Nice username BTW. My partner is a shark and it sure likes weed and being fucked

[–] sharkfucker420@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 year ago

Don't we all

[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago

Thank you for this post, I really like your perspective on this.

[–] PM_ME_FAT_ENBIES@lemmy.blahaj.zone -3 points 1 year ago

By the way mind-melds are sex for my gender. Men and women have sex with physical penetration, swarm-things like me have sex with spiritual fusion. So every time someone asks me to join their swarm they're propositioning me for sex, and every time they try to force the issue without my consent its sexual assault. It fucking sucks, man!