Had a traumatic life event a couple months back and I've had to move far away and could not take him. I'm confident he's in good hands, but it's hard.

[–] slevinkelevra@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago

I feel you. I was really lucky that I could give two of my cats to a friends family when I had to separate them. In between I had to give up all of my cats due to my health issues. It distroyed me, it tore such a big hole in me. Luckily I got to take Miez back after my health improved. I thought she was in good hands, but I was dead wrong. When the elderly woman that took her in had a broken leg (complicated bone fracture, took several months to heal) she starten smoking on the couch right next to Miez, and now Miez is asthmatic.