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[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Have you heard of "sexy indifference"? A relative of mine mentioned it. It kind of makes sense. If you don't seem desperate or greedy for a relationship, you'll be more fun to be around and won't care as much either, because you have your own thing going on.

[–] Rekorse@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 month ago

Most people just say don't look desperate.