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Have you seen someone die in front of you? (lemm.ee)

submitted 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) by FookReddit69@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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And I'm not talking about autopsy videos or banned stuff, I'm talking about real life experiences...

Obviously I've seen gore, fatalities in traffic accidents and real executions videos but never live... The closest was the body of a guy laying on the concrete from a car accident, I was in a bus going in parallel with that car, but I'm not sure if he was dead...

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[–] whome@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I'm sorry for your loss.

[–] the_third@feddit.de 5 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

It's bound to happen, right. However, it's a thing I have to learn how to deal with and I'm pretty certain I'm going to finish that process as a different person.

Interestingly, being there at the bed wasn't that hard. It was just the right thing to do and I would always want to be there again.

The part where I'm missing him hard is when I feel like picking up the phone because something good happened but then I realize, no, not today, not tomorrow either, never again.