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I understand that, I suppose it depends on your relationship to your family and how much you're beholden to them for your personal safety. Since I'm an adult and live independently from them, I would absolutely feel comfortable doing this. My sister has recently become a landlord, and if I hear her say something similar to OP's mother, or if it appears that she's mistreating them I have no qualms about explicitly stating she's in the wrong and openly moving against her.
If OP is in a more delicate situation wrt their relationship with their parents, then I think there's scope for quietly (or even anonymously) getting in touch with e.g. renter's unions and asking a member to reach out the tenant. Or maybe dropping some literature through the door of the property for the tenant to read.
I think you might be right.