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My opinion is that sex work should be legal. It would enable involuntary virgins to get a good sex experience for payment; they will be guaranteed a good sex experience with a sex worker: no harassment, good education, and a fun time.

Sex work gets shamed by ~~people~~ puritans because of payment for sex and it's "sinful"; yet these same ~~persons~~ puritans get and have sex for free out of "passion" or marriage; they also discriminate against minorities in sec.

EDIT: Apparently there is an implied difference between sex work and prostitution. I mean sex work.

EDIT 2: I messed up the writing of my post. My real opinion is located in this comment:

Oof. I didn't realize there was way more exploitation than just sex traffickers. It totally makes sense though; sex trades are a product of capitalist exploitation and the existence of private property. (Naturally under communism, the prevalence of sex trades would be heavily reduced.)

It seems like I couldn't communicate my ideas properly beforehand. I don't want people in the sex trade to be criminalized; I want pimps and johns to be criminalized.

Only a few hours ago: I wanted to support a sex trade industry that didn't involve rapes or rely on economic coercion. I just wanted disabled people, who keep getting discriminated out of sex,^[Sexual Ableism]^[Dating With Disability: How to Rise Above Sexual Ableism]^[Dating with Disability: Choose Your Dreams Over Sexual Ableism] to be able to feel better about their lives; a lack of sex can cause mental health issues in some people (even though this shouldn't happen). (However, having sex probably won't fix the issue, it will just hide the problems until later). Now I feel like shit...

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[โ€“] moonandstar@lemmygrad.ml -1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)
[โ€“] Amicchan@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

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I thought I fit the description of an involuntary celibate during my teens (though I didn't and don't identify with the incel movement); but I don't think I really wanted a romantic relationship sex; it was just puberty messing with me.

Now I'm currently voluntary celibate, because relationships and sex seem like a lot of work just for little gain. I'm not an incel.

[โ€“] moonandstar@lemmygrad.ml -1 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[โ€“] Amicchan@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[โ€“] ksynwa@lemmygrad.ml 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[โ€“] Amicchan@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I admittedly messed up my answer in the post; this is what I really meant.

What I mean is that I disagree with coerced prostitution; sexual exchange should only be done when people have the luxury to be able to consent; survival sex should not be criminalized or endorsed.

I dislike the amount of exploitation in the sex trade industry; the real solution would be to abolish capitalism so all people can easily get resources to survive, without despair.

Pimps should be criminalized; resources for victims should be available to sex traders.

[โ€“] ksynwa@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 2 years ago