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If you're not happy with what you're doing or what you have, make at least a rough plan on the steps how you will change it so that you'll like your life more in the future.
By doing so you realize that there is a way out of the missery and it gets easier to get out of it.
Any ideas if one can't even quantity what it is they want?
You could start with a list of things you don't want and then you figure out how to avoid them.
Sometimes all the choices you have are negative choices.
Then there is still stoicism!