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TV shows aren't even remotely comparable to real life situations here. Americans have a spending problem. I've never been to college. Yet I've already earned one retirement and I'm working on a second. I'm 42 years old.
America is great because you can make as much money as you want as long as you're motivated enough to do it. The problems I see mostly from people here are self inflicted.
Look at this guy and his bootstraps, everyone!
This is definitely oversimplified
If everyone was the same as you, yes. But different metabolisms, impacts of things medicine doesn't understand, remove motivation, take away executive function. In short for the people who are able, it seems like everyone else is lazy. For those who aren't as able, they simply can't make the right decisions, and do the right things. An easy example is that successful people on average require less sleep. So they have more hours to utilize.
It didn't take much for me to do any of this.
Just a little ambition. Show up to work. Keep a positive attitude as much as possible. Save money, don't blow it on useless shit.
If you recall my op said most people self inflict their problems. Obviously mentally retarded people and quadriplegic people are going to have a disadvantage. But most people are simply giving up and using everything or everybody else as an excuse.
I'm not going onto say what gave it away but I am positive you are over 50.
42 in January
Translation: "Fuck you, I've got mine."
The American dream (sans avocado toast)