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@totallynotsocsa I suggest trying out different instances, luckily it's the Fediverse you can move around and try some out, I see you're using beehaw and I hope that's a lot better for you, if not try Kbin / Mbin as they are great Instances as well.
The problem is that these are very active communities which are some of my primary interests. I'm just browsing all and not even any particular instances. I'm commenting on things I see which look interesting and engaging with the content in an area I have interest and knowledge, but I seem to be doing so in a way which defies some unspoken orthodoxy.
It's just been very frustrating. I've been a pretty prolific forum poster going back to Usenet and have several decade-old reddit accounts and I've never felt targeted or marginalized like this for what are honestly pretty mainstream ideas.