I am very comftable with he/him pronouns. Always was but recently I noticed that while I don't go out of my way to use them I'm also fine with they/them pronouns being used on me.

It could be a phase but I'm not sure. It could also be that I tend to use they/them as an alternative in. I'm confused

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[–] Veraticus@lib.lgbt 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There's nothing really wrong with experimenting with gender and pronouns and deciding what works for you. If it feels uncomfortable to use they/them go back to he/him. It's possible to be nonbinary but close to a man as well.

It's cool you're thinking about this! Understanding one's self is the only path to self-improvement.

[–] Bicyclejohn@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm confused, the labels don't seem to fit me well. I mostly feel like a guy but I feel that a tiny part of me is non binary.

[–] Veraticus@lib.lgbt 2 points 1 year ago

That's totally valid too though, nothing wrong with that! Your experience of gender can change over the course of your life or even on a daily basis. It's a gender journey, not a gender destination.