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[–] doublejay1999@lemmy.world 141 points 1 year ago (7 children)
[–] tetris11@lemmy.ml 56 points 1 year ago

That's amazing. They continuously maintained a fire, set up a farm of chickens and grown produce, and even healed another kids leg.

[–] Bufo@kbin.social 41 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What a great read...thanks for sharing the link.

[–] doublejay1999@lemmy.world 40 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Glad i had the chance to share it !

The authors book Human Kind (Rutger Bregman) argues that we have developed a pessimistic view of ourselves - and the vast majority of humans are basically decent people.

It’s got a lot of similar stories, where he revisits historical events and science experiments that have been used to paint humans as feral animals - and manages to debunk them, or at least expose the fragility of that argument.

He suggests that Survival of the Fittest is also a flawed concept - and that humans have succeeded because of superior collaboration and cooperation.

Review (and better synopsis) here - but it’s a heart warming read.

https://www.theguardian.com/books/2020/may/12/humankind-a-hopeful-history-by-rutger-bregman-review

[–] magikmw@lemm.ee 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

But survival of the fittest is the basis of capitalism. How ever could we reconcile that!?

[–] qevlarr@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Smash capitalism, obv

[–] satans_crackpipe@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

"Survival of the fittest" is a pop sci misinterpretation of On The Origin of Species. It's flawed because it's some made up shit.

[–] RecallMadness@lemmy.nz 12 points 1 year ago (3 children)
[–] doublejay1999@lemmy.world 40 points 1 year ago

it has the advantage of not being a work of fiction.

[–] azertyfun@sh.itjust.works 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Repeatedly history has shown that in dire circumstances, we help each other. Across time and cultures, in times of need, people get less selfish. When a natural disaster hits, or when a terrorist attack happens, people open their doors and pull out the spare mattresses and share food and clothing and volunteer to help and start patrolling the streets, even risking their own lives while doing so.
It's a well studied effect, and when you think about it for more than 5 seconds, we are a social animal first and foremost so of course "reverting back to out instincts" means building communities and helping others. Civilization makes us more selfish, not the other way around.

Reality makes for terrible fiction though because most fiction is written through the lens of character conflict (especially in Hollywood) and "people help each other but some people die anyway from lack of resources or zombie attacke" is boring, so we have been "taught" to expect the opposite of what actually happens when shit hits the fan (actually I'd love a TV show to delve into that, like TLoU kinda did, but Hollywood is notoriously terrible at writing socio-cultural commentary).

[–] nossaquesapao@lemmy.eco.br 1 points 1 year ago

It's possible to give examples of the terrible things people do when faced with difficult situations too. Human nature is kind of a duality in this aspect.

[–] confusedwiseman@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This article sucked me in. What a great read

[–] Jayemecee@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 1 year ago

This was great. Thanks for the article

[–] AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net 7 points 1 year ago

I came to the comments hoping someone would say this.

[–] boyi@lemmy.sdf.org 6 points 1 year ago

Damn you, Mr Taniela Uhila

There was only one obstacle. None of them owned a boat, so they decided to “borrow” one from Mr Taniela Uhila, a fisherman they all disliked.

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But this wasn’t the end of the boys’ little adventure, because, when they arrived back in Nuku‘alofa police boarded Peter’s boat, arrested the boys and threw them in jail. Mr Taniela Uhila, whose sailing boat the boys had “borrowed” 15 months earlier, was still furious, and he’d decided to press charges.