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I'm reading these responses again and let me tell you that writing tthings down has helped me a ton!
Also, that computer analogy was really nice. Thanks to take time and help me (and anyone that arrives to this post!)
No problem. I was planning on giving one or two pieces of advice when I started writing that but half way through realized it was a nice way for me to organize my thoughts and I kept going and it turned into an essay.
And it's happening again, so I'll elaborate: Having conversations and actually wording things to other people instead of having unclear thoughts running through your head is great. I often see people saying stupid shit and start typing a reply, but then I start seeing their point or realize that their opinion is so far away from mine that I can't find any common ground to argue on and delete my half-written comment. I used to think I was just wasting time on the internet, but I'm starting to realize that the act of writing it down was putting order into the mess in my head.