Phantaminum

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[–] Phantaminum@lemmy.zip 8 points 3 days ago

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submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by Phantaminum@lemmy.zip to c/adhd@lemmy.world
 

Hey everyone!

I really passionate about games but I struggle a lot to finish the storyline for a lot of them. There are some games I would love to finish like Eastward or Sea of Stars, but I feel unable to reasume them. I feel like if the game is not a dopamine trap(League or Civ VI) I can't continue playing it.

Does anyone here has face this issue and have found a way to work on it?

[–] Phantaminum@lemmy.zip 2 points 3 months ago

Kind of sounds like The egg

[–] Phantaminum@lemmy.zip 2 points 6 months ago

Capitalismo malo rule

[–] Phantaminum@lemmy.zip 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I have some friends like that, and we play commander so pay to win is always a thing. My GF and I have a precon each and we talked with those friend and now all of us have a precon te be in an closer level than “rat infinite combo vs hobbits precon.”

With some time we have improved our main decks to be more capable of standing. But we are not close yet xd.

You did the right thing talking to them and saying that if they don't chill out it will be not funny for half the table.

[–] Phantaminum@lemmy.zip 2 points 9 months ago

Yeah, Im an aram enjoyer but these changes are tempting!

[–] Phantaminum@lemmy.zip 1 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Its been a while since we had this kind of changes. Im excited to test the new champ, it seems really cool!

[–] Phantaminum@lemmy.zip 2 points 9 months ago

This is like Uruguay vs Kangaroo 🦘

[–] Phantaminum@lemmy.zip 1 points 9 months ago

I was looking forward for this announcement a lot. Also, new champ is the original Aphelios concept but executed better. Like, having control over which abilities to choose at any time is really cool.

[–] Phantaminum@lemmy.zip 1 points 9 months ago

Hey, thanks to comment here! Its been a while from this post and I think a lot has improved since.

Self acceptance has been key and as you said Im trying to be aware that from time to time this approach could not work anymore.

Thanks again!

[–] Phantaminum@lemmy.zip 2 points 10 months ago

Good changes for mages! Want to play ryze already

[–] Phantaminum@lemmy.zip 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I'm reading these responses again and let me tell you that writing tthings down has helped me a ton!

Also, that computer analogy was really nice. Thanks to take time and help me (and anyone that arrives to this post!)

[–] Phantaminum@lemmy.zip 3 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Damn, I don't know where to start this response.

-First, I didn't know that "the real devil" was so good giving advice. Where I live we have a saying that translates like "More knows the devil by old than by being the devil", so your experiences and conclusions are appreciated.

-I haven't been medicated yet, so I will have your advice in mind regarding to that. Also I don't really know if Adderall is a thing where I live.

-Categorizing things by mood needed is something that I haven't heard of, but is so clear now. All my life I have ridded waves of motivation, but I have never planned to do it in advance.

-I'm already on therapy so that's like my "sprint review" to check if an habit is sticking, for me agile has been a good framework to try habits and new approaches.

-As a last point, I'm a developer but as you, I guess that I'm an artist, a writer and whatever I'm feeling like in the moment.

I really appreciate you took time to write this comment, thanks!

EDIT: formatting.

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submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by Phantaminum@lemmy.zip to c/adhd@lemmy.world
 

Hi, as the title says I'm a new developer and some days ago I was diagnosed. My diagnose journey started because I'm unable to be consistent (That's not something new) and it is making me really depressed.

I just spend all day doing nothing and some day I just write most of what I have should written. Some days I force myself to code just to see all letters as blurry meaningless symbols and then I come back to square one where I procrastinate. Now I'm working from home, but when I go to office this gets 10 times worse.

I will be making an appointment to get medications soon, but does anyone have some additional ways to fight this?

EDIT: Thanks everyone that responded the call for help! To people that resonate with this post, please read these comments, all of them are really useful.

Update: All this post started because of a deadline i was having serious problems to reach.

If you are in the same spot as a new dev: What happened to me was that I was facing a really complex issue in which we lacked a lot of information and when I started to ask some key questions everything started to flow again, my main blocker was communication.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that I should have focused on understanding rather than trying to solve.

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