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Being part of a smaller community.
I had even stopped reading usernames. No subreddit has ever felt like a community to me. The only online places that did were my WoW guild, some other guild-based games, a brief period on Crunchyroll a long time ago, and more recently a Discord anime group which is all but inactive now.
The internet has changed in such a way. But so have I. Making friends online used to be super easy (talking 15-20 years ago). Nowadays, I can only do it in person.
I always miss many of the online friends I used to have and regret deeply how I didn't put more effort into keeping them. I see a lot of people make the same mistake. I suppose friendship loss is something most of us need to go through to learn to value it.