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No! You're giving them bad advice. Let the dishes pile up!
I love when that happens because then I can do all the dishes and my husband will pet my hair and tell me I did a good job. You're bad advice will take that from me if he reads this. Delete! >:(
Or maybe you shouldn't conceptualise affection and kindness in a transaction-based manner. Your husband is not a pet machine that you throw dish coins into, stop objectifying him (unless he likes it I ain't kink shaming).