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[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 31 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Being vulnerable was the end of a lot of my relationships.

[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Don't date selfish bastards, then

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 23 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It's not like they go around with labels on their shirts. Really I don't even think it was a conscious choice for them. Some women just lose their attraction when they see dudes show weakness.

[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

That type of person is very easy to spot, dude.

[–] HappyFrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What's with the victim blaming?

[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 1 year ago

Oh, please. These types of girls stand out a mile away. You're not a victim, you're just horny for insta-thots.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's not like they broke up with me on the spot. They even were supportive about what was bothering me. The problem is their physical attraction went way down/disappeared entirely afterwards.

[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 1 year ago

Did she own a ringlight? 🤣

[–] alx@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago

Oh, you didn't mention you were straight. We'll, that's the heart of the problem then