Jokes aside, it's all about confidence. If anything, fake it 'till you make it. I was terrible with girls for a long time until I stopped caring and just went for it. Then I was amazed how easy it was.

[–] rotopenguin@infosec.pub 7 points 11 months ago

That is excellent good advice that everyone should follow and implement fully.

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[–] flying_sheep@lemmy.ml 8 points 11 months ago

Stop sweating it. Don't focus on it when meeting people. It'll happen, and it'll be better if you come to it by being an enjoyable human being.

[–] Squirrel@thelemmy.club 5 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Lower your standards?

[–] mihnt@kbin.social 9 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Hole is a hole.

[–] user224@lemmy.sdf.org 9 points 11 months ago

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[–] user224@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 11 months ago

I only have 5 months now.

[–] ComradeKhoumrag@infosec.pub 1 points 11 months ago

Masturbate furiously until you fuck someone

On a more serious note, there is something good about not getting that need satisfied. Everyone's different, but I have noticed a tendency in people that get that need satisfied very early on, and those that don't.

There are definitely exceptions to this, but generally speaking, I have noticed those that get that need met have less excuses to grow, or sometimes grow so much with the person they love, that they end up losing a bit of themself

Outside of my own experiences, there's a YouTube channel I found recently "HealthyGamerGG", really cool stuff there