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Looong long distance relationships are not worth it.
Personally I disagree. They come with their own set of problems and admittedly probably require specific character traits on both sides, but they can be worth as much as any other relationship!
And you can buy those Bluetooth dildo/fleshlight combos that work over the Internet.
It really depends. I did long distance for years during college and we got a place together after college and have been happily together for a very long time now.