You can't be a femboy if you're not skinny. I mean, you can be but you'd only be lying to yourself, hence why the only popular photos of femboys and trans women are the of the skinny variety. Fat trans and femboys need not apply, they'd rather us die or not exist, period.

[–] euphoric_cat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago

bro what 😭😭😭 no way you unironically just said that. femboy is just an expression, they do not have to be skinny, short, have fluffy hair, etc.

[–] optissima@possumpat.io 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Us? Are you okay? I will not deny there is a lot of erasure of people who are not traditionally attractive, but that is a different intersection. I'm a transwoman who is fat and cannot lose my beard, but I'm still a transwoman and they can't take that from me.

[–] violetraven@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago

Oh, I'm not saying we're not women. What I'm getting at is envy/jealousy of femboys that can have fun playing dress up as long as they're thin, UwU, cute type. I've never seen a femboy that has ever been fat hence why the photo is portraying the typical skinny, look-at-me-in-girl-clothes femboys along with trans girls that can pass and go stealth after a few months of HRT

[–] atkion@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

Step 1: be attractive Step 2: dont be unattractive