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The worst moment in my life was when I quit my band. There was way too much drama. We were all acting like children. I almost lost my best friends over it. It completely killed my passion for music, which never came back (this was over a decade ago).
Our parents were "moderating" the conversation because we were all acting like children. But our parents all sucked at being neutral and that just added to the drama.
Eventually we all swallowed our prides and apologized, and we were all able to admit that we were acting shitty, but so much damage was done.