Asklemmy

As always when someone asks me this question, I have to reply that reddit is just generally very hostile towards its users.

Mods always fight against admins; I used to be a mod. You check reddit one day and see there's a new sitewide rule you now have to enforce. These rules fit on one line, so you're left confused trying to understand how to implement it (e.g. the "no violent content" rule. Is cartoon violence prohibited? Reddit seems to think so), and you get no advance warning. We are performing free labour to keep their site running and yet as a mod your account is not in any way protected. You get three strikes like everyone else and after that you're suspended, even if you mod a big subreddit that needs someone there.

Other users are really aggressive towards new users if you don't catch the inner workings of Reddit fast enough. Most subreddits have a karma or account age threshold before you can post to cut on spam. That means you, as a new user, make an account and you can't post anywhere anyway. It's like the site doesn't want you. Mods are also notoriously hostile towards their community but part of that is because they get so much hate that they can do nothing against (it took the admins years to implement a mute function in modmail, they had no idea mods actually even got hate mail). Don't respect this obscure rule you had no idea existed and you get your post removed without any notification. Every community is ran differently despite being on the same site. But wait, didn't I say reddit enforces rules to its mods without warning them?

Yep, you get it now. There are too many contradictions happening in Reddit and I can only hope Lemmy knows to learn from them.