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When you vet someone for whether you can be close friends with them, what's a seemingly unimpactful characteristic about someone that would instantly rule them out as a potential close friend for you? (lemm.ee)

submitted 1 year ago by shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] Hazzia@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 1 year ago

Honestly though, this big for me as well. I didn't used to think I would care - not everybody has the same skills and all that - until I met someone failing all 3 categories. Unfortunately he's also my coworker and I have to run clean up on basically everything he does. He has worked there 3 years now and still messes up on the same, most basic stuff I've walked him through countless times before. It's exhausting when they make no progress and you're being held personally responsible for their growth and improvement.