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[–] Palerider@feddit.uk 55 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 31 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Maybe you don't like the wording, but everyone does this. Unless you know if someone will be a close friend the moment you lay eyes on them, or are friends with literally everyone you've spent time with.

[–] ComradeChairmanKGB@lemmygrad.ml 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yes everyone does it naturally and mostly subconsciously over time as they get to know people. You've got to be a real psycho to be running through a checklist you've crowd sourced online. Wtf is this thread. Ugh reddit refugees lmao.

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 1 year ago

I personally doubt OP is going to actually use the answers like that.

[–] Fuckass@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

Well, many people have hard line stances for some things so they’re instantly aware of someone crossed the line. I’m acquaintances with some people who I would normally think are ghouls because if we avoid certain topics, we’re fine.

For real this seems like a major red flag.