I'm very much awaiting a time when users can block specific instances. I still don't want to check the option to hide NSFW content, because I do want to see NSFW content that may show up on non-porn communities. Just not really interested in seeing so much porn in All.

You can check on your settings page, btw, in the Blocks tab - count quickly with Ctrl+F.

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[–] poplargrove@lemmy.world -3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I was just surprised because jerking off to other women having sex while committed to one seems wrong. I didnt consider you two might have agreed on it. But I don't agree its either porn or not having sex if your partner isnt around. You can just jerk off without.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Why is it wrong? You're not cheating. It's just fantasy. I haven't stopped noticing other women who I think are really attractive either. I just don't try to fuck them. Doesn't mean I can't imagine what it might be like.

Coincidentally, tomorrow will be our 23rd anniversary. You don't stay married 23 years and never fantasize about what it might be like if your life had been different and you had been with a different woman.

[–] poplargrove@lemmy.world -3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

It's wrong because most of the time that isn't something your SO will be ok with. If your wife is ok with it, thats that.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

It is unreasonable to not be okay with fantasizing.

[–] Monkeyhog@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You've had some weird, prudish SO's then, thats perfectly normal and if a woman i was dating was that controlling, I would be out the door.

[–] poplargrove@lemmy.world -1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I'm surprised you see it as prudish not wanting your SO lusting for and jerking off to other women having sex. Why not attend strip clubs too. Watching some women dance is tamer than watching them have sex.

[–] Monkeyhog@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

And I've never had a SO who would be against me going to strip clubs either. That seems prudish as well.