sifr

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[–] sifr@retrolemmy.com 29 points 3 days ago (4 children)
[–] sifr@retrolemmy.com 4 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I'm still trying to figure this out for myself.

You just need to put yourself around people as much as possible.

If your circumstances are that it isn't possible, you shouldn't beat yourself up about it. You perhaps could then make it your goal to relocate or put yourself in a position where you can be around people.

What kind of stuff are you into?

[–] sifr@retrolemmy.com 1 points 5 days ago

It is one thing if a kid's parents just does not have the means, but the article points out that some baby boomers (maybe more commonly in a the west?) can have tendencies to be spiteful toward people deemed less. Maybe this happens more so in WASP culture.

I'm personally of the belief that if I ever chose to have kids, that I would see it to the end that they felt supported, regardless of their age. The kids themselves didn't ask to be born.

A lot of cultures who have these values, I notice, have kids that thrive a lot more. I have some friends from east Asia, and they all were encouraged to be independent and pursue meaningful careers. Their parents support them intensely, and help with investments and other forms of support.

My biological father's family is Jewish (nonreligious). My first cousin is very successful and I know has been set up to have a meaningful career, because my aunt let her live at home during graduate school, and paid for her graduate degree in speech pathology. She will inherit the house she grew up in.

I grew up in WASP culture on my biological mother's side, and my mom has the attitude that she wants nothing to do with me, especially after I turned 18.

[–] sifr@retrolemmy.com 17 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (2 children)

This is my parents. I found out from a relative that after my mom suffered an injury, that her husband was spending $2000 a month on fast food. Literally TWOOOOO THOUSAND dollars on fried chicken a month.

When the topic came up of them writing a will, they said that I'd be getting the family pictures. That's it.

[–] sifr@retrolemmy.com 6 points 6 days ago

Looove Dues Ex. I just looked up The Neverhood, and it looks so interesting. Definitely going to need to watch a long play of that.

[–] sifr@retrolemmy.com 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Animatronics. I like old school Chuck E Cheese and Rockafire Explosion. Also, urban exploration. Train videos.

[–] sifr@retrolemmy.com 8 points 1 week ago

Most community colleges are very affordable, if not free with financial aid. At many state universities, many students who are low income can qualify for free tuition.

[–] sifr@retrolemmy.com 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

What are your favorite shows to watch?

[–] sifr@retrolemmy.com 2 points 1 week ago

I will rent movies and television shows from the library. I don't watch broadcast TV unless I'm forced to at the gym. Speaking of, I don't understand why gyms subject people to watching the shitty news while on cardio machines. I wish they would turn them off or just show random inspirational stuff instead.

[–] sifr@retrolemmy.com 3 points 1 week ago

I appreciate this comment.

[–] sifr@retrolemmy.com 14 points 1 week ago

Wish I joined the military, sometimes. But my heavy conscience got in the way.

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