scrappy_Duncan

joined 1 year ago
[–] scrappy_Duncan@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago

Staining red oak for a slat wall around our fireplace. Hope to get it installed this week.

[–] scrappy_Duncan@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

I don't see how he could have survived. But I hope he did for his sake.

[–] scrappy_Duncan@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

Agreed. And believe me you, they'll find a way to screw us all over if we give them half a chance.

[–] scrappy_Duncan@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago

Fantastic article! I used to love loitering as a kid/young adult. I should do more of it.

[–] scrappy_Duncan@lemm.ee -5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That comment sounds a little bigoted.

[–] scrappy_Duncan@lemm.ee 14 points 1 year ago (7 children)

So, dumb question but what is exploding-heads? Are they actual Nazis or like far-right wackos and MAGA nuts?

[–] scrappy_Duncan@lemm.ee 10 points 1 year ago

Yesterday I swung by someone's house for something and she was out in the treehouse reading or writing something. No social media. Didn't see a phone. Just enjoying the moment. Best quote from Secret Life of Walter Mitty, "Beautiful things don't ask for attention". The moment when the world famous photographer sees the elusive snow leopard he's been chasing and rather than take the photo he just sits there and breathes in that moment. Not even doing what he came to do just so he gets to fully experience it. That's slow living. It's inherently anti-social media

[–] scrappy_Duncan@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah, basically this. That's the beauty of it.

[–] scrappy_Duncan@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

Our new patio furniture and spending time relaxing outside on it.

[–] scrappy_Duncan@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Some good advice and sorta what I didn't want to hear lol. My wife and I do have a night every week when family watches the kids and we go on a date or just spend time together. I think I just have to come to terms with the fact that the house will always need cleaned and that there will always be a list of maintenance things that need done. I guess my issue is that I often need a clean house and mind in order to have peace. So maybe I need to work on my mentality with those things to have peace even with things that need done and a messy house.

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by scrappy_Duncan@lemm.ee to c/simpleliving@lemmy.ml
 

My wife and I lead a pretty simple life. I work from home at a low-stress job. She is a stay-at-home mom. We have a small house, a garden, and some chickens. But we have a 3-month-old and a two-year-old. Nothing about our life feels slow or simple. On top of watching the kids there's always tons cleaning to do and house repairs and upkeep. How do you balance things that aren't optional like vehicle/house maintenance, upkeep, and raising kids? Is simple living just a luxury of those who don't have kids?

Or are we already living simply and it just doesn't FEEL simple?