red_rising

joined 1 year ago
[–] red_rising@lemmy.world 20 points 5 months ago

In my opinion, therapists are like friends. You’re not going to be friends with everyone you meet, in fact, you probably won’t want to be friends with most people you meet. It’s hard finding good friends but once you do, they make everything a little brighter. Just like friends, it takes time to find someone you really click with.

You’re right, they can’t fix your problems or your environment. That’s not what therapy is about. It’s more geared towards helping you recognize your own thoughts, behaviors, and patterns that are not serving you and adjusting them to serve you better. For example, a therapist might help someone to recognize the early warning signs and triggers of a depressive spiral so they can take proactive measures to prevent falling into a dark well of depression. No one can eliminate depressive episodes, but you can learn to recognize it and actively work against it taking over your life.

I hope that helps.

[–] red_rising@lemmy.world 9 points 5 months ago

I feel the same. I don’t do ads. If a product doesn’t have an ad-free product that I’m willing to pay for, then that product doesn’t exist for me. Similarly, if a paid product decides to introduce ads (I’m looking at you Amazon) I’m immediately cancelling.

[–] red_rising@lemmy.world 29 points 5 months ago (11 children)

Half the point of ads these days isn’t to advertise to you, it’s to piss you off enough to upgrade to a paid plan. If they happen to also make money from the adverts, then that’s just an added bonus.

[–] red_rising@lemmy.world 10 points 6 months ago

So glad I came across this. There is a place near me that serves ant larvae soup and I’ve always wanted to try it but it’s super expensive. Now I can sleep at night knowing it’s not worth trying.

[–] red_rising@lemmy.world 4 points 7 months ago (3 children)

I just bought a Roku smart TV and the first time I powered it on, it asked if I wanted to enable smart features by connecting to the Internet. I said no and it functions like a dumb TV now. There are a couple brands that still make dumb TVs but they are all fairly small and not great quality. Much better off researching which smart TVs can be easily disabled.

[–] red_rising@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Protip: one of the buttons around the screen is usually a mute. In my experience, its usually second from the top on the right side.

[–] red_rising@lemmy.world 19 points 11 months ago (2 children)

There are also plenty of US banks that just don't charge overdraft fees anymore.

[–] red_rising@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

A lot of higher end credit cards also include protection against this kind of thing as well.

[–] red_rising@lemmy.world 42 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I highly doubt that was an accident....

[–] red_rising@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

My guess is that a good part of those people are just trying to reserve a good username and then will sit on it.