MaryReadsBooks

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[–] MaryReadsBooks@lemmy.ml 3 points 6 months ago

Thanks for sharing the essay. It was a super interesting read <3

 

The book starts out with a girl with magic eye on a flying ship to catch magic sand only she can see. She has no memory of how she grew up. At the start of the journey a man destroys the ship, but safes her. During the book(s) it is reveled that the man and she herself are basically here to destroy humanity because humanity threatens magic. Instead she decides to destroy all magic herself at the end of the last book.

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Humanity retreated to safe parts of the world where magic isn't as strong. I think these parts are mostly cities and used completely by humans. Because the magic found in the wild and the land itself is deadly to humans, they can only traverse it using flying ships. Further they use these ships to gather magic gathered in storms to power their machinery. There is also a part where she travels with the demon boy through the wilderness which is super magical and beautiful.

[–] MaryReadsBooks@lemmy.ml 16 points 7 months ago (6 children)
[–] MaryReadsBooks@lemmy.ml 6 points 7 months ago

You dont habe to be attracted to all genders the same way to be BI. You can have a preference or stronger attraction to certain genders and presentations. If you think that some non-binary people and fem-boys are attractive then ur probably Bi

[–] MaryReadsBooks@lemmy.ml 1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Heya, your profile pic is super cute, I live it :3 Where is it from a show?

[–] MaryReadsBooks@lemmy.ml 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Whats ur impression?

[–] MaryReadsBooks@lemmy.ml 3 points 8 months ago

Thank you! Good luck with the novel :)

[–] MaryReadsBooks@lemmy.ml 4 points 8 months ago (2 children)

That's what I'm thinking about. I want to learn to do random stuff with enjoyment rather than getting good at specific things. And I'm unsure whether this can be achieved with discipline

[–] MaryReadsBooks@lemmy.ml 2 points 8 months ago (2 children)

Can you give an example of an activity where it worked for you and how you kept at it?

[–] MaryReadsBooks@lemmy.ml 4 points 8 months ago

Its not that much about what I should be doing, rather finding hobbies I want to do intrinsically. Or do you say, that in the morning I should create Lists of hobbies that I want to do today until I want to do them intrinsically?

 

TLDR: Have you any tips or resources about how to be motivated to do things which you enjoy having ADHD in mind?


Hey, recently I had to stop my ADHD meds for a while.

Additionally I have a lot of time right now bec. of medical reasons and I try to do things I want to do instead of proctrastinating, so whenever I realize that I'm just doing stuff without actually enjoying them, I try to sit back, make me some tee and think about what I want to do. Like not in the future, but right now.

But the thing is, very often I just sit there and there is nothing I want to do. I try to enjoy doing nothing but it is kind of frustrating sitting there and thinking about what I want to do and nothing comes up.

I wanted to ask if this is a me thing or an ADHD related thing, and if so how you manage that. I either am completly stressed out with 100 projects at the same time or doing nothing and having no motivation to do anything. How can I be motivated to do things I enjoy? How to find things which I enjoy without sitting there and stressing out that currently I'm not motivated to do anything?

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