Kyatto

joined 10 months ago
[–] Kyatto@leminal.space 13 points 1 day ago

These national tests are yeesh material tho. Subtle, or not so subtle, at least tangential to, eugenicist or nationalistic ideals.

[–] Kyatto@leminal.space 3 points 1 week ago

I think the key criticism of OP is the rent. Maybe proletarians don't understand luxury but for me the idea of luxury is owning a modest home, be that a single home or a flat in a building, working a couple days a week to cover essentials, spending the rest of my time with loved ones and self improving.

[–] Kyatto@leminal.space 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

the idea an apartment can be luxurious, ostensibly

[–] Kyatto@leminal.space 1 points 1 week ago

lmao that's a funny way to put it. I honestly have no clue about outgassing, I've worn glasses my whole life and I don't recall ever having issues. I also have no allergies or sensitivities whatsoever though. My partner is sure that it's just eye strain or adjusting to the new "biome" of stale air you have for your eyes now, she just got a pair after needing them for years and she had a lot of trouble adjusting to them and still never wears them all the time.

I never would have thought of burning as a way to describe it but I looked it up and apparently it is a fairly common concern if you never wore glasses and got a large prescription, the glasses focus the light in on your eyes and your eyes aren't used to that. I actually do have trouble in daylight cause of my extreme prescription and never thought it could be possibly related to the glasses, I just thought it was that way due to my silver irides.

[–] Kyatto@leminal.space 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I figure you'd also have a rash if it was a sensitivity strong enough to make your eyes burn, but the only other things I could think of I feel you'd already have figured out... Not blinking enough cause no wind on your eyes to help trigger blinking, eyelashes getting in your eye, or eye fatigue from the correction and not taking breaks to look at something far away..

[–] Kyatto@leminal.space 1 points 1 week ago

I want to go there just to get the shirt tbh

[–] Kyatto@leminal.space 4 points 1 week ago

this is me to a t almost

[–] Kyatto@leminal.space 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I've seen a big uptick in that word usage, I don't like seeing them and use a replacing extension to intercept and censor them to a more appropriate word, while showing an asterisk so I know it was censored. Now I don't have to see the word, but I still get to see who is being a bigoted jerk.

Edit: ya so I guess on lemmy people think it's cool to throw ableist slurs.

[–] Kyatto@leminal.space 4 points 1 week ago

Better chat models exist ^w^

This one even provides sources to reference.

[–] Kyatto@leminal.space 4 points 2 weeks ago

this is too cute

[–] Kyatto@leminal.space 1 points 2 weeks ago

I switched over to development/experimental package repos cause I was impatient for a new feature. I switched back to prod but I didn't revert my packages. It worked fine for a couple weeks but they eventually became to outdated and I couldn't post.

Luckily you can use a live stick to chroot in to fix. Felt pretty cool being able to do that, but yeah it was a stupid mistake lol. And I'm always gonna have a live USB on the side just in case I do something similarly bone headed.

[–] Kyatto@leminal.space 6 points 3 weeks ago

I'm feeling unreasonably upset at the yellow character in this one.

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Rulerrection day (leminal.space)
submitted 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) by Kyatto@leminal.space to c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

Update: Thanks to a few of y'all who got me to look at things differently I think there was a miscommunication. I called my mom, and sorta cleared things up, they said they thought that my message out to them was saying I was planning on celebrating trans day of visibility, and not just mentioning it off hand after accepting the invite. I wouldn't be honest if I didn't say I am not fully convinced but I love them enough to forgive. Things have been rocky with them, my dad is teetering on the edge of ultra-conservative and still misgenders and dead-names me. In my mind there was a very real possibility my dad told my mom to dis-invite us after knowing it was a trans day.

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Kinda posting to just vent, family instantly cancelled when I just mentioned it was a trans awareness day.

Crazy thing is they know me, they know we're not religious, they know that all we'd like to do is just see family (most importantly the two doggos.) And now I'm not going to be getting to do that and I just feel pretty hurt after this. I've sent some messages back and forth and they've re-invited us, but without a clear explanation or sincere apology, my partner doesn't feel comfortable around them now. I agree with her, so we won't be going.

This is the first overtly discriminatory thing I have experienced from them, and it is just so strange this is what hill they decided to claim.

I hate being a social war politic pawn, any other situation, birthday falling on the same day, solar event, or an "acceptable" awareness day, would have been met with open arms. They've just treated us as degenerates.

I wasn't expecting or wanting anything, other than perhaps a minor acknowledgement, just getting cancelled on is bizarre and I can only see it as hateful or at least extremely overly defensive over my perceived motives?

Well idk after this I feel like on march 31st it would have been really fun if I spent the day misgendering them so they could experience a taste of some of the experiences I have. But I'm still just hurt, I would have loved to get a hug from my mom and sis and pet the dogs.

Hopefully this follows the rule and venting is ok, this is my first post here and I would have rather it be something more lighthearted but I just want support and validation after this.

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