I got some advice and I'm still living it so I can't say if it's worth it but:
"Spend money on the things you enjoy and cut everything else to the bare minimum"
So if you like having a nice house more than going to a sporting event you shouldn't be budgeting for the sporting event. Just don't go. If you love great food but hate driving, buy kitchen accessories not dinners. That sort of thing.
I'm not explaining it as well though
First, I'm just happy that there is a TMBG topic. Nobody ever talks about them and I like them a lot.
Second, John F writes love songs and I'm into it. I'm pretty sure "She's an Angel" is his "Twisting" is great. With that said John L. Just has really good weird sounds that are pop enough to be palatable. Songs like "you're on fire", "dr. Worm", and I'm pretty sure "the lady and the tiger" is his. To say who's better is like comparing radio head to the talking heads, they just make different stuff.
Last, thanks for this. I really like tmbg and don't really get to talk about them with anyone