If you run a bar, and have a white supremacist, or misogynist sit down at your bar, and let him stay there, you now run a white supremacist bar.
This is a strange philosophy that doesn't really hold up in the real world. Though it is taking root there the last few years, I wince when I think what it might lead to eventually.
It's also a counter-productive philosophy. If a white supremacist sits down at your bar and you kick him out... he's not going to cry about it and then change his ways. He will go find some place to drink where he is welcome. That place will, with absolute certainty, reinforce his beliefs. However weak or strong they were before, they will become stronger for it.
If he had stayed, what would happen? He might talk to some people who have milder views? This is guaranteed to soften his white supremacy, if not eliminate it eventually. People adopt the attitudes and beliefs of those they socialize with. They do so without even realizing it. The longer it occurs, the stronger the effect.
The only reason to kick him from the bar is if there's something mentally wrong with yourself. If you yearn for some sort of final showdown, where you can fight the Nazis like ole great-grandpa did back in the 1940s, so you too can be a hero. You're doing what that Kyle Rittenhouse did, creating circumstances that will inevitably lead to violence, because subconsciously you want to murder other people that you did not need to murder. It's sort of sick.
check out the paradox of tolerance for why bigotry should never be tolerated.
Mindless drivel, that. The "paradox of tolerance" is that you never really wanted tolerance. You wanted the world to look a particular way, where everyone thinks, believes, and speaks as you do. And when they don't do that, you want to revoke their freedom of speech and selectively punish them for it. Afraid that, given the freedom that is everyone's birthright, that their "wrong" ideas are somehow more powerful than your "right" ideas, and that only violence can see you achieve victory.
No one can have correct thoughts, without first working through the incorrect ones. Some do it faster, most slower... but you either allow them to reach the correct conclusions on their own, or they're not reaching them at all. They're just being punished and brainwashed into parroting what you want them to say. If you need that to happen quicker, you do it by speaking with them. Even if it is frustrating or uncomfortable.
Yes. When your choices are "do the hard work that would make them not-nazis" and "polarize the world so I can go on a Nazi-huting crusade and literally kill them"... there's something sick in you that you should figure out and fix.
Positions generally aren't logical at all. Of any kind.
Not with argument alone. Shouting arguments at them from Twitter that you've also gotten them banned from can't ever work.
But they can be "interactioned" away. That means 2-way communication. In close contact. The sort of close contact that was already happening before you "threw him out of the bar".
This isn't speculation on my part. It's well-established science. This shouldn't come as a shock to anyone here. Even if sociology's not your thing, you have to have stumbled across it from time to time.
https://www.npr.org/2017/08/20/544861933/how-one-man-convinced-200-ku-klux-klan-members-to-give-up-their-robes
You're just wrong. And the only reason to still insist you aren't wrong, is if, deep down inside, you want to go murder people. Of course, you can't murder just anyone... that'd be evil. So you find those who are deserving of death, and then orchestrate circumstances where, hopefully some day, you can kill them and not feel any guilt for it. That's what you are.
Doesn't sound like that's a goal of yours either. Like, how terrified you must be that your arguments will lose that you can't debate them?
"Oh my god, what if I changed my mind and thought like them! How do I avoid that!?!?!"
It's pathetic.
Why not? It's a good point to start with. Does anyone have a right to exist? And what does that even mean? And if it somehow turned out that some had a right to exist, and not others, what would the criteria even look like? How could those ever be sane? Oh gee, skin color. It's definitely skin color that makes someone have the right to exist. This weird little pigment protein, if its amino acids are arranged in the wrong sequence!
I could tear the shit out of them in that debate. I would make them feel bad for ever having spoken the words.
You? Too scared of losing. So scared of it, that you accuse them of not wanting debate, when you refuse to do it yourself. So scared that you announce in a public forum that "well people really dont' want to argue"... ON THE INTERNET. That's sort of like announcing there's no sun. At the beach. At noon.
The truth is that you hate people too. Every bit as much as they do. But among your ingroup, there are people who it is righteous to hate (Nazis), and people who aren't (ethnicities). And you want to genocide them too, just like they want to genocide the people they hate. But you need them to strike the first blow so you can pretend they provoked you and not the other way around. It's awfully convenient.